
Ray of Hope #218: Homeland


“Discovering the Lord as the Greatest Treasure of our lives!”
(Based on Exod 34:29-35 and Mt 13:44-46 – Wednesday of the 17th Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
Jenny was a cheerful little seven-year old girl of a poor home.
Once, while out shopping with her mother, in the market…
… she came across a “fine white pearl” in a pink foil box.
Though it was an imitation pearl (not a real one), the girl was highly fascinated, and sought to buy it.
After a lot of pestering, the mother – giving up some of her precious savings, to satisfy her daughter’s desire – bought the imitation pearl to her.
As soon the girl reached home, her uncle – whom she loved much and had returned from foreign – was waiting to see her.
The excited girl ran to her loved uncle, and presented the imitation pearl, saying:
“Uncle, see how beautiful this pearl is! I am so excited to be possessing it!”
But the Uncle – who knew the child’s love for pearls – looked into her eyes and asked:
“Child, if you really love me, give the pearl to me!”
“Oh no Uncle! I can’t give this pearl to you!” said the girl
“I have got this bought from Mummy after a lot of insistence.
I will give you my favourite doll instead… but don’t ask me for this pearl… please!”
But Uncle went on insisting: “No, if you really love me, give me that pearl!”
The child, by now had tears in her eyes…
… and with little drops flowing down her tender cheeks
… Jenny said: “Uncle, I do love you very much.
Though it is extremely hard for me, but because I love you, I will give you this pearl!”
And so saying, she handed over the pearl to her uncle.
As soon as Uncle received that pearl – which was an imitation…
… he reached out his hand inside his bag, and took out a box.
Handing over the box to the crying child, he told her: “Check what I have for you, in return for what you gave me”.
Jenny opened the box.
To her great surprise and delight, it was a Necklace of Real Pearls!
Her eyes glistened, as she held the Priceless Necklace of Pearls, in her little hands.
And as she kept admiring, her Uncle told her:
“Remember my Child! So it is with life…
Unless you recognize and give up the fake things of life…
… you can never possess the real treasures of life!
Never be afraid of taking the risk of giving up everything, in order to gain that which is priceless!”
What about us?
Are we ready to hand over the “imitation” pearls to our Loving God, in order to be handed over the real “Pearl of Great Price!”
The Gospel of the Day are the twin parables of Jesus about the Kingdom of God being compared to a “priceless fortune” being discovered.
A man finding a treasure in a field (Mt 13: 44-45)
A merchant finding a pearl of great price (Mt 13:46)
One of the common thought-pattern exhibited in both these parables…
… is: “The risk of giving up everything, in order to gain that which is priceless!”
The man on finding the treasure in the field…
… takes the risk of selling everything, in order to buy the treasure, which was priceless
The merchant on finding the precious pearl…
… takes the risk of selling all that he had, in order to possess the pearl, which was priceless.
The pages of the Bible narrate this pattern: “The risk of giving up everything, in order to gain that which is priceless!”…
… St Joseph risks listening to the voice of the Angel, and taking Mary as his wife – in order to provide a home for the Son of God – a priceless responsibility!
… St Peter risks giving up his boats and fishing nets – in order to follow Jesus – a priceless vocation!
… Zacheaus risks inviting Jesus into his home and doing away with his riches – in order to obtain salvation – a priceless reward!
… St Paul risks doing away with his former ways of persecuting Christianity and preaching to the Gentiles, instead – in order to win many souls- a priceless way of life!
Indeed, “nothing worthwhile is ever achieved playing it safe, and sticking to the familiarity of the known!”
Are we ready to take this risk…?
… risk of doing away with our sinful ways, in order to live a new life in Christ?
… risk of giving up some undue attachments, in order to allow the Lord to possess our hearts?
… risk of removing some unwelcome addictions, in order to allow the Spirit of God to work in us?
Jesus, the Priceless Fortune deserves our best!
We, however, often cling on to the “imitation” pearls in our life.
… assuming that they can give us happiness – when in actuality, they are mere imitations!
Our Loving God constantly asks us: “Child, if you really love me, give the pearl to me!”
Our human weakness and tendency may tell “Oh no! I can’t give this pearl to you!
But let us not be afraid to “take the risk”…
… and tell the Lord:
“Lord, I do love you very much.
Though it is extremely hard for me, but because I love You, I will give You this pearl!”
Yes, this act of “taking a risk” will surely win for us “The Pearl of Great Price!”!
The Lord is with us…
… waiting to be discovered as the Greatest Treasure!
What is needed is our self-giving…
… little and small as we are: let us offer our lives to the Lord
… broken and disturbed as we are: let us give ourselves to the Lord
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
God, the Lord of life, has entrusted to men the noble mission of safeguarding life, and men must carry it out in a manner worthy of themselves.
Life must be protected with the utmost care from the moment of conception: abortion and infanticide are abominable crimes. (CCC # 2271)

“Being inspired by the life of Sts Martha, Mary, and Lazarus, and being faithful companions and witnesses of the Lord!”
(Based on Memorial of Saints Martha, Mary, and Lazarus)
Luciano Pavarotti was an Italian operatic Tenor.
(A tenor is a type of classical male singing voice whose vocal range is one of the highest of the male voice types)
He made numerous recordings of complete operas and individual arias, gaining worldwide fame for the brilliance and beauty of his tone…
… and eventually established himself as one of the finest tenors of the 20th century.
Luciano relates:
“When I was a boy, my father, a baker, introduced me to the wonders of singing.
He urged me to work very hard to develop my voice.
Arrigo Pola, a professional tenor in my hometown of Modena, Italy, took me as a pupil.
I also enrolled in a teachers college.
On graduating, I asked my father, ‘Shall I be a teacher or a singer?’
“Luciano,” my father replied, ‘if you try to sit on two chairs, you will fall between them.
For life, you must choose one chair.’
I chose one.
It took seven years of study and frustration before I made my first professional appearance.
It took another seven to reach the Metropolitan Opera.
And now I think whether it’s laying bricks, writing a book – whatever we choose – we should give ourselves to it.
Commitment, that’s the key.
CHOOSE ONE CHAIR!”
Often we try to find joy and satisfaction in life, by trying to adjust and fit into many “chairs”.
We end up in frustrations and irritation and bitterness.
Our life gets entangled into a lot of annoyance and resentment
The Result: We feel life is totally unfair to us… We complain… We argue!
The Feast of the Day invites us to reflect on this common trend of our lives through the incident of Jesus in the house of Martha and Mary (Lk 10:38-42)
During his journey of ministry, Jesus came to a village and was welcomed in the house of Martha and Mary.
Martha demonstrates great hospitality by welcoming Jesus into the home.
She gets busy with the tasks of serving their honoured Guest.
Mary, on the other side, displays great devotion and love, by sitting at the feet of Jesus
She gets immersed into spending time, with the revered Rabbi.
This incident invites us to appreciate the courage and devotion of Mary
The role adopted by Mary was something contrary to the fixed norms for a Jewish woman.
She sat at the feet of Jesus, just as a student would, while learning at the feet of a Rabbi.
This was, however, a role reserved for men.
Yet, Mary “chose the better part” (Lk 10: 42)
This incident also invites us to reflect on the words of Christ to Martha.
Jesus tells Martha, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her?” (10:41-42).
The Lord extends an invitation to Martha to examine her approach…
Jesus is not against her actions of service and of providing a comfortable hospitality.
But He is concerned that Martha is too “worried and distracted”
Very often…
… our best intentions in life can get spoilt due to our tendency to over-worry or be over-anxious.
… our noblest deeds of works can be marred due to our unnecessary outbursts of irritation and distractions
The Greek word used for “distracted” is “periespato”
“Periespato” means to be pulled or dragged in different directions
As a result of this high degree of distraction….
Martha fails to maintain an important and basic dimension of hospitality – giving due attention to the guest
Martha also seeks to cause a humiliation for her sister, Mary, in public
Martha even goes on to accuse Jesus of “not caring about her”
We live in a world where we are prone to get easily “distracted” – to be pulled or dragged in different directions – like Martha.
But can we seek to overcome this crippling tendency by “choosing the better part” of giving whole attention to the Lord and to His Kingdom.
The incident also teaches us lessons from Lazarus – who is not seen actively in the entire narrative.
Lazarus reminds us that it is okay, to be in the background, supporting others in their journey with Jesus.
His silence speaks of the importance of listening and being present with others.
He also teaches us about the value of family and community in our faith journey.
Life offers us many “chairs” – choices – which can distract us, cause us irritation and take away our focus from what is most basic and most important.
Let us ask the grace to choose the “one thing that is needed” – the one “chair” – of being committed to the Lord and His Kingdom…
… so that we can enjoy true peace and joy in life!
Let us be inspired by…
… St Martha – in realising our “lack of focus” and in being willing to be passionately committed in the service of the Lord.
… St Mary – in “choosing the better part”
… St Lazarus – in being content to be in the background, and doing our works in silence and tranquility, and thus experiencing the spectacular glory and power of the Lord!
Happy Feast of St Martha, St Mary and St Lazarus!
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Direct abortion, that is to say, abortion willed either as an end or a means, is gravely contrary to the moral law
You shall not kill the embryo by abortion and shall not cause the newborn to perish. (CCC # 2271)

“With faith and hope, leaving all to God’s Holy Will in all our prayers!”
(Based on Gen 18:20-32, Col 2:12-14 and Lk 11:1-13 – Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle C)
One day, a lady was giving some lessons to her little nephew.
He was generally a good, attentive child.
But on this occasion he could not fix his mind on the lessons.
The child had actually lost one of his favourite marbles and was disturbed by it.
So after a little while of distraction, the little boy suddenly said: “Aunty, may I kneel down and ask God to help me find my marble?”
His aunt gave her consent.
The little boy knelt by his chair, closed his eyes, and prayed silently.
Then he rose and went on with his lessons contentedly.
Next day, with fear that the child had not found his toy, and so might lose his simple faith, the lady gently asked him: “Well, dear, have you found your marble?”
“No, Aunty,” was the reply, “but God has made me not want to!”
What a beautiful reply, isn’t it?
God does not always answer our prayers in the way we wish or expect!
But if we are sincere in our prayers to Him… “He will take from us the desire for what is contrary to His Will…
… and give us faith and hope to leave all to His Holy Will!”
What is our understanding of Prayer?
The Gospel of the day is a beautiful invitation…
… To understand Prayer
… And to grow in being a Person of Prayer
The Gospel passage begins with Jesus “praying in a certain place” (Lk 11: 1a)…
… and His disciples asking Him, “Lord, teach us to pray” (Lk 11: 1b)
Here is an interesting notion that is observed even in our daily lives: EMULATION
EMULATION is a quality prevalent in many areas of our life…
A child emulates the styles and mannerisms of the parents
A student emulates the virtues of his/her teacher and forms an ideal
Lovers seek to emulate qualities in the other to be more and more like them
People emulate the style statements and lifestyles of their heroes (role models)
The disciples of every Jewish Rabbi also had a deep desire to emulate their Master.
This included how the Rabbi appeared, his eating styles, his Sabbath observational manners, what he liked and disliked, his mannerisms and his preferences.
The Rabbi would also teach and emphasize certain aspects of the prayers that he considered most important, depending on his outlook and approach to God.
Thus, we see the disciples of Jesus, the Rabbi also come to Him… to emulate Him
They had seen their Master often resorting to long hours of prayer
They had observed their Master interceding to the Father on important occasions
They had experienced their Master as One Who was in communion with the Father through prayer
And so, seeing their Master in prayer – wanting to emulate Him – they ask Him, “Lord, teach us to pray…” (Lk 11: 1b)
Here is also an important lesson for us…
Do we want our children to pray?
… As parents, we must be rooted in prayer and children should see us praying
Do we want our parishes to be more vibrant and co-operative?
… The priests especially and the faithful should live as persons of prayer
Do we want our religious communities to be houses of peace and joy?
… The community members have a bounden duty to spend time in personal and community prayer
As Christians, we have a duty to be persons of Prayer…
… being in communion with the Father
… seeking His Will at all times
… living joyfully, knowing that the Father cares for us
The relationship that Jesus emphasizes in prayer is that of God as a Father…
A Loving Father
… Who cares and loves us much!
A Merciful Father
… Who never abandons us and always wants us to be close to Him!
What is therefore needed in prayer, “is a raising of one’s heart to the Father in love”
Jesus in the Gospel, further teaches on prayer, through a parable:
A friend who knocks at the door of his friend at an odd hour in the night, seeking for help (Lk 11: 5-8)
The man had an unforeseen guest, and so he went to his friend seeking for help
This man had the goodwill to serve his guest…
… but did not have the resources to help.
Very often, we ourselves land up into such situations, isn’t it?
We have “guests” coming in different forms….
People with problems and difficulties who approach us for help and assistance
Moments of uncertainty and insecurity that diverts our minds to it
Situations of sicknesses or crisis which seek our attention
In all those situations, we ask ourselves: “What can I do?”
But we need to realise, and be convinced: “The best thing a Christian can do… is to pray!”
In all moments of hardships and difficulties…
… we need to rush to God, our Great Neighbour and cry out to Him, “A friend has come, and I have nothing to set before him.“
Such moments become occasions when we realise…
… Necessity for God and Dependence of God are two essential constituents of Prayer
We thus become persons of Prayer…
… the more we sense the need for God in our life and the more we depend on Him
… the more we know that God is everything for us and the more we know He knows what’s best for us!
Of course, it does not mean that God, our Great neighbour, is sleeping and that He has to be awakened from his slumber…
… or that He has to be forced to render us help.
The point of the parable is that: When we realise we have a Friend Who is most needed for me and on Whom I can depend on…
… Whatever be the time of my life, I will go to Him
… Whatever be the situation I face in life, I present myself to Him
Thus prayer becomes…
… not simply an exercise or an obligation to be fulfilled
… not simply a remedial measure in our moments of struggle
But prayer becomes…
… a time of sharing and presenting ourselves, always, to the Lord seeking His Will
… a moment when we love the Lord more and perceive His plan for us in our life
… a time of self-introspection to weed away anything unbecoming of His Love
The Lord is a Loving Father, Who loves our prayer not because of hard-heartedness…
… but because He thirsts that we spend more time with Him, in His presence!
God’s Love for us… is and ought to become the greatest reason for us to pray!
And so Jesus says, “Ask, Seek and Knock” (Lk 11: 9)
Ask… to come to know that we depend on God for everything
Seek… to continually declare that we wish His Will to be done in our lives
Knock… to surrender ourselves to Him knowing that He is always available for us!
Prayer, is thus, always influential and transformative…
… making us to bend our wills to His Will
… causing us to amend our ways, to have our lives resonant with His Will
Yes, if we are sincere in our prayers to Him…
“He will take from us the desire for what is contrary to His Will…
… and give us Faith and Hope, to leave all to His Holy Will!”
Let us give to the words of St Teresa of Avila:
“Provided that we don’t give up, the Lord will guide everything for our benefit…!
There is no other remedy for this evil of giving up prayer than to begin again!”
May the Lord help us to grow in our understanding of prayer and to always be Persons of Prayer!
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
You shall not kill the embryo by abortion and shall not cause the newborn to perish. (CCC # 2270)

“Responding to God’s Great Graces and reaching out to the world with hope and faith and love like the little couple of ‘St Anne and Joachim!’”
(Based on Memorial of Saints Joachim and Anne, Parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary)
All of us at some time or the other, have come across Family pictures…
… the one bearing many generations of family members
The grandfather and grandmother… with their sons and daughters and their spouses and their little children etc.
Perhaps, some of us have such family portraits or pictures with us.
Every such Family Photo gives a nostalgic feel…
Those are not mere printed papers….
They contain legacies
They are filled with memories
They give a glimpse of the past: struggles, disappointments, mistakes, events hard to acknowledge….
They give an inkling to the future: love, laughter, hope, blessings…
They are a witness to the present: unity, fellowship, brokenness, anger….
A family photo also reveals… the Presence of the Higher Being – God…
… Who has worked in unknown yet amazing ways.
His presence is very much seen in many of our family situations.
Hard situations converted to moments of grace
Tough times transformed to strengthening situations
A family photo has it all…..
Today we gaze at the Family Photo of our Beloved Saviour.
We specially recall and cherish the Blessings of God, bestowed on the privileged Grandparents of Jesus & the Parents of Blessed Mother Mary…
… St Anne and St Joachim.
Hardly anything is known about Saint Ann and Saint Joachim.
Their photos are blurred and hazy
They’re absent in the Bible.
There are stories and legends that have come down to us through the ages and tradition.
Though we don’t know many details about the life of this couple, we can firmly assume a few things:
They were simple people of great hope looking for the Coming of the Messiah…
Their faith in God was the guiding force of their lives!
The lives of Saints Joachim and Anne remain shrouded in mystery, lost to history.
But one thing, we know with certainty: The legacy of their daughter, Mary – the Woman entrusted by God the Father to become the Mother of God.
It was their teaching that would have helped Mamma Mary to say Her “Fiat” – Yes, to God.
It was their upbringing that helped Mamma Mary to stand firm in the midst of unforeseen events.
It was their example that helped Mamma Mary to be strong in the face of immense pain and sufferings!
Yes, God chose two very unlikely individuals – Anne & Joachim – to help in His Plan for the Salvation of the world.
Is God looking at you and me at this moment…..?
Like He chose this insignificant Couple….
… He looks at each of us – in hope and expectation
Let us look at our Family Photo…
…not just of the blood-related family, but the whole Human Family
There are many faces dejected…
There are many hearts broken…
There are many souls in sin…
There are many lives shattered…
There are many minds confused…
There are many wills unrepentant…
There are many bodies abused…
There are many characters in filth…
As people of the Kingdom, we need to understand the power of “little things becoming big, with God’s Great Grace!”…
… just like the “grain of mustard seed…” (Cf. Mt 13:31 ff)
The Lord is calling us like the “little couple” of St Anne and Joachim to reach out to this human family…
… and to fill the world with hope and faith and love!
Pope Benedict XVI says: “Often we are led to believe that sainthood – holiness – is reserved to a few chosen ones
Saintliness, the fullness of Christian life, does not consist in the achievement of extraordinary feats, but in uniting oneself with Christ… in making his disposition… his behaviour… our own!”
Saints Ann and Joachim saw the mighty hand of God at work in their lives.
They heard God’s voice yet wondered how God could possibly use them.
They stepped forth in faith, not knowing where the journey led…
But God rewarded them with the Beautiful and Precious Daughter – Mary!
Today they gladly rejoice in being blurred, yet significant characters in the Divine Family Portrait – glittered and ‘halo’ed and dazzling….
… with the Grandeur of Jesus , the King of Kings, their Precious Grandchild….
… and the loveliness of Mary, the Queen of all hearts, their beloved daughter!
Happy Feast of Mamma’s parents to all.
May their Li’l Divine Prince Bless us! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Human life must be respected and protected absolutely from the moment of conception.
From the first moment of his existence, a human being must be recognized as having the rights of a person…… among which is the inviolable right of every innocent being to life. (CCC # 2270)

“Like St James, having Jesus as the Best Friend of our life!”
(Based on the Feast of St James, the Apostle)
A class of Standard Five students were being taught the value of friendship.
At the end of the class, the teacher, while revising, asked the children to give a short definition of friendship.
Little Jane lifted up her hand and replied:
“A friend is someone who knows all about you…
… lavishes love on you, for being just as you are
… and yet, gently leads you, to become better than what you are!”
The Gospel of the Day is a beautiful account of Jesus, the True Friend who lavishes His Love for His disciples…
… and yet, gently, leads them to become better disciples!
The Gospel narrative begins with the mother of Apostles James and John, requesting the Lord to grant her children a privileged place in the Kingdom.
In her tenderness and affection as a mother, she wished that her children be always close to the Lord…
But the Lord replied: “You do not know what you are asking!” (Mt 20:22)
The Lord was inviting the mother… and the disciples… and each one of us to understand…
… “What it really means to be close to the Lord!”
Did they really know what it meant to be close to the Lord?
Do I really know what it means to be close to the Lord?
St James had enjoyed a privileged place in the Band of the Apostles of Jesus.
He was in the Core Group – one of the Three – Peter and John being the other two- who had the opportunity to be with the Lord in some of His special and extraordinary moments.
Raising the dead daughter of Jairus
Transfiguration on the mountain top
Moments of praying and agony in the Garden of Gethsemane
James was indeed physically close to the Lord…
But the Lord today invites, with much love and affection…
James and his brother John
Their mother
The disciples
… and each one of us
To really realize the meaning, of asking “to be closer to Him”
Being close to the Lord means: Making changes in our lifestyle and to be in accord with the Will of God!
Look at the lives of Mother Mary… St Joseph… St Paul… St Peter… St Matthew
Being close to the Lord means: To get out of comfort zones & taking risks in life, for Christ’s sake!
Look at the lives of the Good Samaritan… Nicodemus… Simon of Cyrene
Being close to the Lord means: Giving up a sinful life and amending our ways to seek for holiness!
Look at the lives of Zacchaeus… the Woman caught in adultery… the Samaritan Woman… the Good Thief…
Being close to the Lord means: Embracing sufferings that come our way, seeing the Providence of God!
Look at the lives of Mother Mary… St John the Baptist… St Stephen… St Paul…
In asking to be close to the Lord, we also say that…
… Yes Lord, I will share in your cup of suffering.
… Yes Lord, I will join you on the way of the Cross
… Yes Lord, I will unite with your death on the Cross!
The mother of John and James realized this…
That’s why we find her….at the Foot of the Cross (Mt 27:56)
She understood.
She got close to Jesus.
She remained till the end.
She drank the Cup!
John also realized this…
That’s we find him, according to tradition, suffering during the Roman Persecution
[He understood.
He got close to Jesus.
He remained till the end.
He drank the Cup!
James also realized this…
That’s why we find him, killed by the sword, in witness to Christ, His Master (Acts 12:2)
He understood.
He got close to Jesus.
He remained till the end.
He drank the Cup!
The Lord also promises…
He who shares my cup, also shares my Glory!
He who shares my cross, also shares my Rising!
The Apostle James, went close to the Lord, drank the Cup…
… and he shares in the Joy of the Lord
Today, he intercedes and invites and beckons us…
To come closer to the Lord…
… and share in the Lord’s Joy and Glory!
Are we willing to be close…really close…
… to Jesus, our Beloved Friend?
He is our Best Friend “Who knows all about us…
… lavishes His love on us, for being just as we are
… and yet, gently leads us, to become better than what we are!”
Feast Day Greetings of the Apostle St James!
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Unintentional killing is not morally imputable.
But one is not exonerated from grave offense if, without proportionate reasons, he has acted in a way that brings about someone’s death…… even without the intention to do so. (CCC # 2269)