✝️✨ REFLECTION CAPSULES – Jan 04, 2026: Sunday

“Entering into a higher level of intimacy and closeness with the Lord, and making our lives with the Lord truly an ‘Executive one!'”

(Based on Sir 24:1-4, 12-16, Eph 1:3-6, 15-18 and Jn 1:1-18 – 2nd Sunday after Christmas)

Those who frequently travel by flight are familiar with certain privileges that come along…
… when travelling by the same airlines.

A person – a Christian – who often travelled by the same airlines, shared this experience:
“I have been travelling with these airlines for the last 27 years.

They have been my airline of choice…
… and I have been awarded a level of familiarity.

That level of familiarity is called as Platinum.

It’s an award for my consistency with them and I am called as their ‘preferred customer.’

The Platinum card allows me to have a lot of privileges.

When I go to a counter, and if people are ahead of me, I am given the privilege to go up higher.
If there are people with gold membership, I pull out my platinum membership – and this
status makes me go higher!

All this was fine…
… till one day, as I was asking for a seat with an extra leg-space, they told me, “Sorry Sir, there is another person who has a higher preference over you.

That person has an Executive Platinum Membership!”

The person went on to share his experience: “This I understood, is a beautiful way of
understanding our level of faith-relationship with the Lord as Christians.

Some are satisfied to have a silver or a gold membership – just do the basic minimum.

Some, like me, go on to have a higher familiarity and consistency – like a platinum
membership.

But there are a few – who enter into a high level of intimacy and closeness with the Lord – like the Executive Platinum Membership!”

What membership are we having with the Lord… silver, gold, platinum…?
… or can we seek to have Executive Platinum and higher!”

The Gospel of the Day – the Prologue of the Gospel of St John – is a beautiful invitation to
deepen our intimacy with the Lord…
… as we are reminded in the prologue: “But to all who received him, who believed in His name, He gave power to become children of God!” (Jn 1:12)

The Prologue of the Gospel of St John is a mystical reflection…
… on the Divinity and Incarnation of Jesus Christ, the Word made Flesh.

The Gospel begins with the statement: “IN THE BEGINNING was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God!” (Jn 1:1)

This statement takes the reader back to the very first verse of the Bible: “IN THE BEGINNING God created the heavens and the earth” (Gen 1:1)

This verse in the Book of Genesis is the starting of the account of the creation of the universe.

When the Fourth Gospel begins the Good News with the same phrase, “In the Beginning’’
… we are given a clear message and alert: “Here is the story of the New Creation!”

And St John presents the central character of this New Creation – “the Word Who became flesh!” (Cf. Jn 1:14)

The Prologue presents the truth that in Jesus, we are a New Creation

As St Paul beautifully writes: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has passed away, behold, the new has come!” (2 Cor 5:17)

How is our life?

Are we living “this life of being a New Creation?”

Is my first priority of life set on the Lord and His Kingdom?
Do I seek to grow in my relationship with the Lord, every day?

Maybe some of us, in our Christian following, like to do only the minimum – do the basic
requirements of the religion

Some go on to have a higher familiarity and consistency

Just as a silver or gold or platinum membership…
… we don’t venture to go deeper in our relationship with the Lord.

In this Season of Christmas, the Lord invites – through the Prologue of the Gospel of St
John…
… to enter into a high level of intimacy and closeness with the Lord
… and thus make our membership truly an “Executive one!”

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️✨ REFLECTION CAPSULES – Jan 03, 2026: Saturday

“Becoming a witness and a testimony to the world, to reveal Jesus as the Redeemer!”

(Based on 1 Jn 2:29-3:6 and Jn 1:29-34 – Christmas Weekday)

The five fingers of the hand have their own functions and roles.

However, one among these five, is often engaged in a pretty notorious activity…
That Finger is …
… the Forefinger or the Index Finger.

And the activity that it is often used for, is… Blaming!

The Index finger or also called as the Pointer Finger is often used…
… to point to others and accuse them
… to point towards others and blame them
… to point towards others and lay a charge on them

This action is also called as Finger-Pointing – the act of casting the blame or assigning the blame for something, to someone else.

We have somehow, consciously or unconsciously, got into a habit of using our Index or the Forefinger to always blame and accuse others…
… and pass on the fault to other people.

The Gospel of the Day, is however, a welcome change to this “sickening” trend of finger-pointing!

We have St John the Baptist who utilizes this action of pointing, not for blaming or accusing…
… rather to point out the Saviour of the World!

He points out, in a majestic style, to Jesus… and declares emphatically, “Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” (Jn 1: 29)

He places our attention towards Jesus…
… to make known the One who is the long-awaited Messiah!
… and reveals to the world, the One who is to redeem humanity!
… to proclaim the One, who by His greatness, would grant salvation!

John the Baptist, becomes a witness and a testimony to the world, to reveal Jesus as the Redeemer!

This pointing to the Saviour reveals many inner qualities of St John the Baptist…

He displays great humility in acknowledging the greatness of Jesus!
He shows forth immense goodness in choosing to play the secondary role!
He exhibits nobility by gently shifting the focus and limelight to Jesus, the Saviour!
He demonstrates faithfulness to his mission of being the forerunner to the True Messiah!

Our life is sometimes plagued by the “bad tendency” to point to others, only in a negative sense…

We point to others…
… to pass on judgement and condemnation
… to cast feelings of guilt and culpability
… to make public the faults of other people

It’s not that we should refrain from constructive criticism…
… or correcting others gently
… or making the other person aware of their shortcomings.

But can we learn from St John the Baptist, the attitude to point out to others, in order to….
… Instill a sense of encouragement and affirmation
… Acknowledge their valuable and precious presence
… Allow people to notice the good and noble deeds of others

Pointing to others, ought not to be a tool of painful criticism and discouragement…
… rather it must be an action of encouragement and acknowledgement.

Pointing to others, ought not to be a medium of accusationand denunciation…
… rather it must be a means of appreciation and admiration.

Let us become a people of true acknowledgement…
… and not wasteful blaming.

Let us become a people of honest encouragement…
… and not critical judgment.

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️✨ REFLECTION CAPSULES – Jan 02, 2026: Friday

“Marching forward, with faith and love, through the valleys and mountains of the Year 2026!”

(Based on 1 Jn 2:22-28 and Jn 1:19-28 – Christmas Weekday)

One of the most common & natural styles of engaging in a conversation with a stranger, is getting to “know more” about the person.

This process to “getting to know more” about the person includes:
… getting to know His/Her name
… getting to know His/Her occupationsWee
… getting to know His/Her interests and likings

The Gospel of the Day is an introduction to the person of John the Baptist.

An attempt is made to “know more” about John…

His name… His occupations… His interests and liking.

We are on the second day of the New Year.

The last one week has been a time of hectic activities and festive spirit…

We were treated to many sermons, reflections and thoughts on the Word of God.
We were feasting on a variety of good food, tasty delicacies and classic sweets.
We were enjoying many moments of fun, frolic, laughter and happiness.

But today onwards, things tend to “appear” to be ordinary and “normal”.

The time, after a grand celebration or a festive mood, can be always dangerous and dodgy…
… it can lead to extended period of laxity or slackness.
… it can remove the zing of enthusiasm and energy.
… it can cause one to creep into a mode of taking things for granted.

And so, the Gospel of the Day presents to us the message of not slipping into negligence or casualness….
… Rather, seeks to keep up our spirits high, and to be on the vigilance always.

People with great enthusiasm always tend to brush the energy onto others.

People with a passionate zeal always make a positive impact on the other.
And such a person… is John the Baptist.

The Fourth Gospel introduces the person of St John the Baptist to us.

He is a person of great enthusiasm, of a passionate zeal and of a fighting spirit.

Some Priests and Levites came to him to ask, “Who are you” (Jn 1: 19)

John the Baptist was quite clear and convinced of the answer to this question.

He admitted that he was not the Messiah. (Jn 1: 20)
He admitted that he was not Elijah. (Jn 1: 21)
He admitted that he was not the Prophet. (Jn 1: 21)

He testified that he was the voice crying in the desert. (Jn 1: 23)

He testified that he was the one exhorting to ‘make straight the way of the Lord’. (Jn 1:23)
He testified that he was the witness to the Light that was coming to enlighten the world. (Jn1: 8)
He testified that the One coming after him was ranking ahead of him (Jn 1: 15)

A deep conviction of “who he was” guided all the actions of John the Baptist.

A clear cut awareness of “what was his mission” was the secret of success for John the Baptist.

Do I possess such kind of a deep and “anchored” conviction in my Christian Life?

John the Baptist was questioned, “Who are you” by many people.

He had an answer for it…
… and that made Him not to waver or get bogged down by situations.

Life often throws this question to us – “Who are you?”

When we face emotional crisis in our relationships and social interactions, we are encountered with this question, deep within us…
… “Who are you?”

When things in life do not go the way we wished or expected and somehow the future appears bleak, we are encountered with this question, deep within us…
… “Who are you?”

When in the castle of interiority, we experience a barrenness and a feeling of isolation from the Lord, we are encountered with this question, deep within us …
… “Who are you?”

Failing to find an answer to this question, can sometimes….
… plunge us into a deep struggle
… make us to fear life and people
… crush our hopes and aspirations.

We may tend to think…
… “What really is the purpose of my life?
… “Why should I continue to life in this manner?”
… “I wish I could just be free from all this web of pain and tensions!”

Yes, life will at many times, throw this question at us – “Who are you?”

Today, St John the Baptist, exhorts & challenges us, to not get too disturbed when we are faced with this provoking question in life.

Our faith and strength, like St John the Baptist, ought to be Jesus, the Light.
Our hope and courage, like St John the Baptist, ought to be Jesus, the Messiah.

I am God’s Child….
… in this is my true identity.

I am the witness to the True Light…
… in this is my true role in life.

I am a Voice in the wilderness…
… in this is my Christian duty and obligation.

I am dependant on the Grace and Mercy of the Lord…
… in this is my authentic hope and faith.

May St John the Baptist, whom we have come to “know more” today, become an inspiration and a challenge, as we march forward…
… with faith, hope and love
… through the valleys and mountains
… and wilderness and oasis
… of the New Year 2026!

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULES – Jan 01, 2026: Thursday

“Holding the hands of our Blessed Mamma Mary, the Mother of God and marching forward, joyfully and fervently on the path of Faith, Hope and Love in this New Year 2026”

(Based on the Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God – the Octave Day of the Nativity of the Lord – New Year’s Day)

A preacher began his homily:
“If it were to be announced officially, that a large asteroid is going to hit the earth…
… and we are into the last 24 hours of our life

Phone networks would crash…
… with people frantically calling loved ones, to say the words they always meant to but never found the time for: ‘I love you,’ ‘I’m sorry,’ ‘Thank you,’ and ‘I forgive you.’

Social media feeds would overflow…
… with heartfelt messages, sharing regrets, memories, and last goodbyes.

Homes would become sacred spaces…
… as families huddled together, holding hands, cherishing the warmth of one another’s presence.
Tears would flow freely…
… tears of regret for wasted time, tears of gratitude for moments shared, and tears of hope for reconciliation with God and others.
Worship spaces would overflow…
… not with weekly attendees, but with those who hadn’t prayed in years, seeking God’s mercy and a sense of peace.

People would scramble to forgive…
… racing to mend old wounds, reconcile broken relationships, and release grudges that have burdened their hearts for too long.

Possessions would lose their value…
… no one would care about their bank balances, cars, or houses anymore. What mattered would suddenly be people!

Silent prayers would rise…
… as even those who had denied God would turn their gaze heavenward, pleading for forgiveness and salvation.

Strangers would become friends…
… as the barriers of pride, prejudice, and indifference dissolved in the urgency of shared humanity.

Parents would hug their children tightly; Spouses would look at each other with tears in their eyes…
… recalling the joys, struggles, and love that bound them together.

Unspoken dreams would remain unfulfilled…
… and people would ache with regret for all the times they postponed living for a ‘someday’ that never came.

And yet, my dear brothers and sisters, none of us knows when our last 24 hours might truly begin.

Why do we wait for such a moment to speak the words that need to be said?
Why do we wait for the last hour to forgive, to love, to pray, to live as God calls us to?

Why wait for the last minute and the last hour?

CAN WE DO THAT… THIS YEAR… THIS DAY… THIS MOMENT?”

We are on the first day of the New Year… and on the 8th day after Christmas – the Octave Day.

We notice that the hustle and bustle of Christmas, the celebrations and merriment of the Festival are waning down…

The Crib and the Christmas Tree and the brightly shining stars have faded away

The large number of people in Church for Christmas have probably reduced to a slender one today
The joy and devout mood of the faithful which was on high, has slowly reduced

Is the message of Christmas slowly being left behind…?

But the Church still dynamically and emphatically keeps up the True Spirit of Christmas.

This Octave Day of Christmas fittingly celebrated as the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God is
a reminder to this fact
… that Christmas is not a one-day event; rather a celebration for life.
… that spiritual exercises and movements can’t be limited; rather need to overflow every day

The Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God is a dogma of the Church and Devotion to Mary is one of the great treasures of the Church.

However, often, there are many doubts arising and controversies created over Mary..
… being considered and called as the Mother of God.

But the logic is pretty simple and easy to understand actually

Premise 1: Mary is the Mother of Jesus
Premise 2: Jesus is fully God and fully Man

Conclusion: Mary is the Mother of Jesus, fully God and fully Man.
And therefore, Mary is the Mother of God!

In honouring Mamma Mary with this title, we acknowledge, and give glory to Jesus, fully God and fully Man…
… and declare the divinity and humanity of Jesus emphatically.

Thus, the title – Mary, Mother of God
– is an excellent proclamation of the basic aspect of our faith – Jesus is both God and Man!

The Motherhood of Blessed Mamma has many implications for us…
1) We are assured of Maternal protection and care in our journey towards the Lord when we face crises, problems and difficulties.

2) We are challenged to respond to God’s inspirations, just as She said “Yes” to God’s call to be a partner in the salvation of the world.

3) We are invited to be faithful and committed in being united with Jesus, in the face of any hardships and troubles that come our way.

4) We are exhorted to be committed and focussed on Jesus and Him alone and to make His Life as the aim, the goal and the foundation of our life.

On this first day of the New Year 2026, the Lord invites us to check and examine our Spiritual Health on the Spiritual Thermometer.

Am I fervent and zealous in my commitment and consecration?
Am I passionate and ardent in my Love for Jesus, my Lord?
Am I charitable and caring in my dealings with my brothers and sisters?

It’s that time of the year, when we are called forth to make some resolutions…
… as we enter into a New Year!

Are we ready to sincerely “keep up” our resolutions…
… or are we going to make it a mere customary practice and follow the crowd mentality: “Resolutions are made to break!”

In this New Year 2026, let us “be blessed, and become a blessing to others!”

Blessed Mamma, the Mother of God, along with St Joseph and all the Saints and Angels, invite us to hold Her hands…
… and march forward, joyfully and fervently on the path of Faith, Hope and Love.

Merry Christmas🎄 and wish you a Very Happy Feast of Blessed Mamma!

May the Lord Jesus, Who is born for us, be our Light 🕯️and Love ❤️

Wish you a Blessed and Holy New Year 2026!

God Bless! Let us always… Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULES – Dec 31, 2025: Wednesday

“Ushering in the New Year by allowing Jesus, the Word to take complete flesh in us!”

(Based on 1 Jn 2:18-21 and Jn 1:1-18 – The Seventh Day in the Octave of Christmas)

Let’s play a game together.

(I know, it will be a bit impractical to play…
… yet, let’s give it a try!

As they say, “there is no harm in trying to achieve something worthwhile in life!”)

The name of the game is “Guess the Word!”

Ok… Ready?

Here we go…

All that you need to do is to “Guess which word I am thinking now…!”

Yeah, you read it right… Just guess the Word that I am thinking of… now!

Did I hear someone say “God?”

Well… You are wrong!

“New Year?”
… Wrong again!

Hmmm… “Resolution?”… “Cross?”… “Celebration?”… “Chocolate?”… “Christmas?”

Sorry… but they are wrong

Another try? … Ok

“Selfie?”… “Food”… “Suffering?”… “Mass?”… “Books?”… “Flower?”… “Sleeping?”
… or some other words?

Well… sad to say… all your guesses turned out to be wrong!

The right answer
… the word that I am thinking of now is “Pencil!”

Did anyone get it right?

I doubt…

If you ask me, why was I thinking of a “pencil”
… I will say, “Well, just simply! No particular reason!”

It would have taken you a very long time to guess that word…
… and probably, you would even have never guessed that word!

Not that it was too difficult or something abstract…

But simply because there is almost no other way you can think the Word that I have in mind…
… unless I myself tell it to you!

The point is… “The Word that was thought” will be known only if it is “revealed!”
… Is it not?

Now let’s take this concept of “Guessing the Word” to the Divine Realm…

Human Beings at every point of time in every civilization, every culture, have sought to know and establish a link and relationship with the Divine
… to know what is the mind of the Divine
… to guess what is the plan of the Almighty
… to discern what is the thought of the Supernatural

Some philosophers sought to crack this code by drawing out many theories

Some sages and prophets spent time in deep contemplation and wrote many literature
Some noble thinkers dedicated their entire lives to put forward doctrines and teachings

Some of these we call it as religions.
Some as way of life.
Some as philosophies of life.

But none of them were able to know and discern the Divine clearly.

It was just as we played the “guessing the word” game…

Many guesses were attempted… some were close… yet, none were fully right!

The Word in the Mind of the Divine would be known only if it is revealed!

And that spectacular instant of revelation is what we call as Incarnation of the Word!The Divine Historic Moment when the Almighty revealed His Word is called Incarnation!

We read in today’s Gospel reading… John 1: 14, “And the Word became flesh!”

The Word in the mind of God took human form in Jesus!

Jesus is the visible, the revealed and the manifested Word of God!

Jesus is the Son of God… Jesus is God, the Son!
Jesus is the Word made flesh… Jesus is God in human flesh!

What is the impact of this most unique and most spectacular event of history
… Incarnation?

Humanity which had strayed has found another chance to be re-united.

Human beings steeped in sin were provided with an opportunity to be redeemed.

This is what makes Christianity different from all other ways of life or religions

This is what makes Christianity unique among all other philosophies of life

It is utter absurdity for philosophers, for the Infinite to become finite

It is purely mythical for the naturalist, for the Transcendent to be understood
It is totally unscientific for the rationalist, for Fullness to be reduced to limitedness

But this is The Truth.

This is the Reality.

In Incarnation, the God of Love was now wrapped in human flesh.
… the Almightiness of God moved in a human arm.
… the Love of God now beat in a human heart.
… the Wisdom of God now spoke from human lips.
… the Mercy of God reached forth from human hands.

You and I are the beneficiaries of knowing the answer of this game “Guessing the Word” which humanity was engaged with the Divine, for centuries!

JESUS IS THAT ANSWER!

And JESUS CAN BE THE ANSWER to all the problems and difficulties of our lives.

Have we allowed Him – Jesus, the Word – to take flesh in ourselves?

Have we permitted Him – Jesus the Word – to have an impact in our lifestyle?
Have we consented to Him – Jesus, the Word – to become the totality of our lives?

We are on the last day of this year 2025
… and at the threshold of yet another New Year 2026!

As we thank the Lord for the gift of this year…
… with its ups and downs
… with its learnings and experiences
… with its joyful events and sad moments

Let us also realize that…
… There can be no spectacular resolve
… There can be no greater discovery
… There can be no better resolution
… There can be no higher decision
… than to allow Jesus, the Word to take firm and absolute control of our lives!

Are we ready to usher in the New Year, with Jesus, the Word taking complete flesh in us?

Yes… He is The Only Way… The Only Truth… The Only Life – JESUS, THE WORD REVEALED AND MADE FLESH!

Thank You, Lord, for the Year 2025 that has gone by.

We seek to be Holier and “belonging to You more” in this New Year 2026!

Come Lord Jesus, help us to be Pilgrims of Hope and Missionaries of Mercy…
… anchored in Your Holy Word and the Sacraments!

Merry Christmas🎄
May the Lord Jesus, Who is born for us, be our Light 🕯️and Love ❤️

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULE – Dec 30, 2025: Tuesday

“Pursuing the task, and prevailing in our aim to discover ‘why we are born’”

(Based on 1 Jn 2:12-17 and Lk 2:36-40 – The Sixth Day in the Octave of Christmas)

There is a famous quotation which goes thus:
“There are two great days in a person’s life – the day we are born…
… and the day we discover why!”

One of them is easier and simpler than the other.

Its just a date and a moment in history.

It could be something like the 19th of January or the 2nd of November or the 29th of December or the 17th of June or the 28th of November or the 16th of January or the 9th of May or the 5th of August etc…

This was the day, we first made our appearance on this earth.

This day is special.

The other day is also special…
… but it’s not easy to discover it!

In fact, it is an arduous task and a patient undertaking.

That is day we figure out why we are on this Planet Earth.

That is the day we come to a greater realization of our Life.

The first day tells that I am here in this earth!

The second day would tell us “why” I am here on this earth!

To discover the meaning and purpose of life and seek to live it fully well, will make our lives satisfying and truly happy.

It could happen…
… in one day!
… over a period of some years!
… over one’s whole lifetime!

Yet, the most important thing is to “keep seeking for it and be alert for its discovery”

Am I in this all-important process of discovering “Why I am born in this world?”

The Gospel of the Day points to a person who discovered greatly this aspect of the purpose in life, and dedicated her whole life for it – Anna, the Prophetess.

We are still in the festive passages of Christmas – the Nativity of our Saviour.

Joseph and Mary have brought their Beloved Child, Jesus, to the temple to be presented to the Lord.

After the ritual purification rites and customs, the Holy Family of Nazareth is encountered by Simeon.

He who was docile and open to the promptings of the Spirit discovered the Glory of God.

At the same time, another woman was also eagerly waiting for the Messiah…
… in constant eagerness and longing – Anna!

‘Anna’ is the Greek form of the Hebrew name Hannah, which means, ‘Grace’

Like the Old Testament Hannah, this Anna is also characterized by prayer and fasting

She was the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher.

Asher was one of the twelve tribes of Israel.

Asher is considered to be one among ten of these tribes, which had strayed away from the path of the Lord…
… that were taken captive by the Assyrians in 722 BC, before the northern Kingdom fell.

However, “some men of Asher, of Manasseh, and of Zebulun humbled themselves and came to Jerusalem” (2 Chr 30:11).

So, Anna belonged to that small remnant of the tribe of Asher that had humbled itself to seek protection and providence in the Lord.

Anna was, however, a widow

She was a widow for a very very long time…
… for over seven decades, she had been a widow.
It was a tremendous grief to live so long without the love of a husband.

Sorrow can cause two consequences to a believer….

It can make one hard, bitter, resentful and rebellious against God
or…
It can make one kinder and dependable on God!

Sorrow can cause our faith to be spoilt
or…
Sorrow can cause our faith to take deeper roots!

Anna, the widow, chose the better part!

She chose to reveal and revel in the Grace of God and live a Gracious Life!

And this process of discovering “why she was born in the world” made her to…

  1. Practice a life of purity: She lived in holiness and integrity.
  2. Pray constantly: She lived in the temple continually and was incessantly fasting and praying
  3. Persevere Patiently: She battled loneliness and depression and persevered successfully to meet the Lord.
  4. Proclaim Boldly: She challenged others in their cozy life by proclaiming the Messiah and His promises!

Life is constantly calling and challenging us to discover “the day why I am born”

It’s easy to while away our time in comforts and pleasures of this world.

But that will certainly not serve the goal of our existence here on this earth.

Each of us have a specific task and responsibility entrusted by the Lord.

This role is proper to our own vocation as in family life or in a consecrated life.

In God’s precious eyes, there are no small or great responsibilities.

He values and treasures each and every duty – small or big- with equal measure.
Every task, when performed with immense love and dedication has its greatness.

Anna, the old lady, “Young and Vibrant at Heart” teaches us today…

To pursue who we are to be – to discover “why I am born!”
… by Practicing a Life of Purity
… by Praying Constantly
… by Persevering Patiently
… by Proclaiming Boldly!

Merry Christmas🎄
May the Lord Jesus, Who is born for us, be our Light 🕯️and Love ❤️

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULE – Dec 28, 2025: Sunday

“Being inspired by the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, to make our families ‘havens of love and care!'”

(Based on the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph)

A classic and popular story – source unidentified – is told about a kid narrating a story of how his mother, once, after a long, hard day at work…
… had placed a plate of bread, sausages and burned omelette, in front of dad.

Yet all that the dad did was reach for his omelette, smile at the mom and ask how the child’s day was at school!

He even went on to add some pepper on that omelette, and eat every bite!

Later, the child heard mom apologizing for burning the omelette.

But Dad, without any fuss – in fact, with a great sense of calmness – replied: “Honey, don’t worry, I love burnt omelettes!”

Later that night, when the child went to kiss Daddy good night, he asked, if he really liked omelette burned.

Daddy wrapped the child in his arms and said: “Your Mamma put in a hard day at work today and she’s real tired.

And besides – a little burnt omelette never hurt anyone!”

Family life presents so many opportunities for doing good…
… reaching out in love with generous positive works
… protecting one another by avoiding unnecessary negativities

Do we make efforts to make our families “havens of love and care?”

Today we celebrate the Feast of the Most Holy Family of Nazareth – Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

Family Life is indeed, very dear to God’s Heart

The Old Testament and the New Testament provide several instances of salvation occurring in the context of a family.

When Jesus, the Eternal Word became flesh (Cf. Jn 1:14), He was born in a Family.

The Holy Family of Nazareth, as the beautiful model and example to every family to nurture care, teach us important lessons:

  1. Discern and do God’s Will – this is the vital rule

At every stage of life, Mary and Joseph sought to do the Will of God and fulfilled it with utmost sincerity

  1. Take the lead and strengthen each other, especially in a crisis

In their tough situations, Mary and Joseph proactively listened to God and took the initiative to steer the family out of danger

  1. Avoid judging each other; support with mutual understanding

Tense situations became moments of prayer instead of blame
Troubled circumstances gave an opportunity to stay with each other!

4..Joyfully fulfil one’s responsibilities, without complaint or blame

Each member of the Holy Family assumed total responsibility and undertook every duty that had been entrusted to them

  1. Find strength in prayer and in God’s Word

In every crunch situation, they turned to God and made the Word of the Lord their guiding principle of life!

It is said that “where God guides, God provides.”

The life of the Holy Family is a beautiful testimony of the protective and providential care of the Lord.

Our families are also called to become gardens that are nurtured and nourished by the protective showers of God’s Love!

The Catechism of the Catholic Church, in its extensive exhortation on families, teaches us: “The Christian family constitutes a specific revelation and realization of ecclesial communion, and for this reason, it can and should be called a domestic church.

It is a community of faith, hope, and charity.
It is a communion of persons, a sign and image of the communion of the Father and the Son in the Holy Spirit…
… in the procreation and education of children, it reflects the Father’s work of creation.
… it partakes of the prayer and sacrifice of Christ.

Daily prayer and the reading of the Word of God strengthen it in charity.

The Christian family has an evangelizing and missionary task.” (Cf. CCC, #2204-2205)

All of us, in families, are called to holiness – this is God’s Will!

Holiness is not easy, but it is made possible with God’s Grace!

Holiness in a family is deepened and enhanced through…
… faithful sacramental life with constant reconciliation
… sharing of meals and exchange of thoughts and feelings
… willingness to forego hurt feelings and celebrate differences
… regular prayer life along with reading the Bible and devotions
… openness to listen to one another and support in tough times

Family life presents so many opportunities for doing good…
… reaching out in love with generous positive works
… protecting one another by avoiding unnecessary negativities

Let us joyfully accept the “burnt omelettes of each other’s weaknesses, failures, angry moments and hurtful feelings”

Let the beautiful example of the Holy Family of Nazareth inspire all of us…
… to make our families “havens of love and care!”

Happy Feast of the Holy Family!

Jesus, Mary, Joseph, we love You!

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULE – Dec 27, 2025: Saturday

“Like St John, the evangelist – being near the Cross of Christ and the Heart of Christ!”

(Based on Feast of Saint John, Apostle and evangelist)

Christmas is a time of great celebration and festivities.

The time after Christmas is often a phase of getting through with many cakes, sweets, food…
The foodstuff prepared for the occasion often exceeds the required amount and thus, it needs a few more days to consume it fully….

Something similar also happens in the spiritual realm…

For many people, the spiritual significance of an event like Christmas cannot be absorbed and completed in a day.

It’s like trying to comprehend the grandeur of some magnificent places like…
… the St. Peter’s Basilica at Vatican or the Taj Mahal in Agra or the Niagara Falls
… or other greater and dazzling sites, in one walk-through.

It’s not too easy.

We have to return back to grasp greater the beauty and the splendour.

So it is with the spectacular event of the Nativity..

We need more time to comprehend about the Christmas Night…
… more time to understand the virgin birth
… more time to realise that God came down to earth as a tender Babe for our salvation etc

As a result, the Church gives us seven additional days to contemplate these divine mysteries.

These extra days on the liturgical calendar, along with the feast day – eight in total – is called as The Christmas Octave.

Every day of the Christmas octave is filled with meaning that reflects back on the Nativity – not just the birth of Christ, but the impact, the reality and the consequence of that birth in the lives of different people.

It’s interesting to note that each of the three days following the Feast of Christmas, commemorates a different type of martyrdom…

Dec 26th – the Feast of St Stephen – the Martyrdom of the Will, Love and Blood:

By His powerful witness, St Stephen was stoned to death in act that was completely willed by him, totally offering his Love for Jesus & shedding his blood.

Dec 27th – the Feast of St John – the Martyrdom of the Will and Love:

By a life of immense faithfulness & total dedication, lived with a tremendous passion and fervour, St John suffered the martyrdom of the Will and of Love.

Dec 28th – the Feast of the Holy Innocents – the Martyrdom of Blood:

The little babies, too little and young to form a will and a desire to love, became martyrs of Blood. (Mt 2:16)
Their innocent blood came in defence of the blood of their Divine Contemporary – Baby Jesus, who would grant salvation to them by His Precious Blood!

On this third Day of the Christmas Octave, Dec 27th, Holy Mother the Church celebrates the Feast of St John, the Evangelist – the Martyr of Will and Love!

St John, the Apostle and Evangelist is known as the Apostle of Love.
His Life defined Love.
His writings expressed Love.
His thoughts instilled Love.

The Gospel of St John is a witness that “this disciple who was loved by Jesus” received two unique places alongside Jesus, that none of the other apostles received.

  1. Near the heart of Jesus – in the bosom of His Divine Lord! (Jn 12: 23)

Jesus bestowed this unique place, close to His heart, to John, His Beloved Disciple, at the Last Supper.

At the last supper, while Jesus announced that one of His disciples would be betray Him, John, leaning on Jesus’ bosom, asked Him, “Lord, who is it?”

The innocent heart of John did not bear any guilt or doubt.
The love in John’s veins prompted him to not have any fear or panic.

The child-like trust in John prompted him to ask Jesus bluntly, “Who is it..?”

Love seeks to be close to the One who is loved.

Love wants to have the nearest place to access the One who is loved.
Love longs to be intimate to the heart of the One that is deeply loved.

St John, the Apostle of Love, was given this place to be closest to the Heart of Jesus!

  1. Near the Cross – in the crucible of suffering of His Divine Lord (Jn 19:26)

Jesus bestowed this unique place, close to His Cross, to John, His Beloved Disciple.

While all other disciples had forsaken the Lord, John remained close to the Cross of Jesus.

The Apostle of Love remained faithful and committed to His Master.
The Apostle of Love was staunchly courageous in the face of extreme fear and danger.

Love desires to be with the pain of the One who is loved.

St John, the Apostle of Love, was given this place to be closest to the Cross of Jesus!

Its a point to be noted, that the only other person who was given this unique privilege of being closest…
… both, to the Heart and Cross of Jesus was our Blessed Mamma Mary – the Supreme Apostle of Love!
… She was closest to the heart of Jesus, nurturing and nourishing Her tender Babe
… She was closest to the Cross of Jesus, sharing and suffering the pain of Her beloved Child.

YES… An Apostle of Love is made and moulded in these two special places:

Near the Heart of Jesus
Near the Cross of Jesus.

Love longs to be close to the Heart…

Love drives every fear of the Cross.
Love seeks to kiss the Heart…
Love impels to embrace the Cross!

Blessed Mamma Mary and St John invite us, with much tenderness and affection…
“Come my Child.. Come my brother and sister… Be an Apostle of Love – close to the Heart and Cross of Jesus”

Merry Christmas!
Happy Feast of the Apostle of Love!

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULE – Dec 26, 2025: Friday

“Like St Stephen, let us also be filled a deep passion that comes from the New Born King, and be His dynamic soldier!”

(Based on Feast of Saint Stephen, first martyr)

Stones were flying from different directions…

The atmosphere was very tense and highly apprehensive…
The people had become enraged and were very badly instigated…

St Stephen…. the man filled with the power and spirit of God, however, looked up intently to heaven and saw the glory of God. (Acts 7: 54-56)

And then a surprising thing happened….

He saw Jesus standing at the right hand of God!

Usually, we always read or say in our prayers that Jesus is sitting at God’s right hand…

But here, Jesus is seen standing!

Jesus is probably giving a standing ovation…. to St. Stephen, the one who became his brave witness.

The mighty display of faith by St Stephen was worthy of a standing ovation by the Son of God!
The Majestic King was tremendously proud of >> His Faithful and Committed Soldier!

We are on the first day after Christmas…

Yesterday, we celebrated child Jesus in the crib…

We sang the “silent night” and “joy to the world”…
We remembered the angels singing “Glory to God in the Highest and Peace to people of good will”…
We exchanged a lot of smiles and shared much fun…

But suddenly today, there is a shift…

The atmosphere of fun and frolic has turned sombre and serious…

The carols of mirth and joy are substituted by cries for death and vengeance…
The shining gold vestments at Holy Mass are replaced with blood-red vestments…

The peace and joy of Bethlehem is contrasted by the tragedy and heartbreak at Jerusalem…

Yesterday we celebrated the birth of our eternal King.

Today we commemorate the triumphant suffering of His faithful soldier.

Yesterday our King left His place in the Virgin’s womb and was born in the world.

Today His soldier leaves the tabernacle of his body and goes triumphantly to heaven.

Yesterday a group of enthused and excited people visited and paid homage to our King.

Today, a group of proud and ferociously evil mob execute His soldier!

Why does the Church celebrate this tradition of commemorating the gruesome stoning to death of St Stephen, soon after the celebration of the tender Babe?

The Church’s long tradition of celebrating the memorial of St. Stephen soon after the celebration of the Nativity of Christ, does not serve to demote Christmas…
… but to continue & manifest more clearly an important meaning of the Christmas celebration.

Christmas essentially means becoming a true disciple of Christ…

And a true disciple ought to tread the way of the cross – “If any want to be my disciple, let him deny himself, take up his cross and follow me” (Lk 9: 23)

Christ the Master, Himself walked this path of trials and difficulties.

The signs of suffering and pain were foreshadowed very much already in the Crib of Christ…

The manger where the babe was laid, foreshadowed the Cross on which He was to be laid.
The swaddling clothes of the babe, foreshadowed the shroud which will cover Him in His tomb.
The lack of room in the inn, foreshadowed the lack of room for Him to be buried after His death.

Christmas is the celebration of Life that was pledged to be given up in death, in order to win back life – life in its fullness!

Christmas becomes a true reality when Jesus is born in our hearts…

When Jesus comes to dwell in our hearts, that heart cannot remain without effect.
There is a contagious enthusiasm.
There is a great transformation.
There is a tremendous zeal.

And this birth of Jesus took place in the heart of St Stephen.

He underwent a real Christmas.

He experienced the joy of having Christ born in His life.
And this fact that Christ was born within, led Him to be a dynamic and bold soldier of His King!

Nothing could stop Him from being a witness…
The experience of Christmas in His life…
… made St Stephen to be a bold soldier.
… made St Stephen to stand firm for the truth
… made St Stephen to shed His blood for His Lord

Have we also experienced Christmas…
… in a way that transforms and makes us authentic disciples?
… which makes us to pledge every breath and cell of our life to the Lord?
… to find immense power and strength in being a true and authentic Christian?

The blood of St Stephen sings the beautiful carols of Jesus who was born in his life!

Are we ready to discover still further, the true and genuine meaning of Christmas in our life?

Jesus, the King of kings and the Lord of lords gave a wonderful standing ovation…
… seeing the spectacular display of faith and courage of His Beloved soldier, St Stephen.

Let us also be filled a deep passion and courage that comes from the New Born King…
… and be His Dynamic and Enthusiastic Soldier for His Kingdom!

Happy Feast of St Stephen, the First Martyr of the New Born King of kings!

God Bless! Live Jesus!

✝️❤️💫 REFLECTION CAPSULE – Dec 25, 2025: Thursday

“Making our hearts a ‘place of party’ to celebrate love, by sharing the precious gifts of God’s Mercy to all!”

(Based on the Solemnity of the Nativity of the Lord)

Tony Campolo, an American author in his book, “The Kingdom of God is a party” narrates a heart-touching experience…

One, very early morning, Tony sat in a cafe.

As he was drinking coffee at the counter, a group of prostitutes walked in and took up the stools around him.

One of the girls, Agnes, lamented the fact that not only was it her birthday tomorrow, but that she never had a birthday party in life.

Tony thought it would be a great idea to surprise Agnes with a birthday party!

He got the necessary information from the café owner that the girls came in every morning around 3:30 am.

They both agreed to set up the place for a party – a surprise birthday party for Agnes!

Word somehow got out on the street, so that by 3:15 the next morning the place was packed with prostitutes, the cafe owner
and his wife, and Tony.

When Agnes walked in she saw…
… banners and balloons; the Café Owner holding a birthday cake
… and everyone screaming out “Happy Birthday!”

Agnes was overwhelmed with deep emotions!

She was stunned and shaken
Her friend grabbed her arm to steady her

Tears poured down her face as the crowd continued to sing: “Happy Birthday to you….”

It was a party that was hard to believe…
… a party that celebrated Love – inviting all to know that God wants everyone to come to His Heart of Love!
… a party that celebrated Mercy – acceptance of human beings as images of the Loving God!

Am I willing to make my heart a “place of party” to celebrate love and mercy…
… by accepting the unwanted, the rejected and the lonely?
… by sharing the precious gifts of God’s Mercy and Love to all?

Christmas is the beautiful feast of God becoming man, and hosting “a Divine Party – celebrating His Love and Mercy!”

Christmas is the holy and happy day when we celebrate the coming of God’s Son into the world – the incarnation of God (Cf. Jn 1:14)…
… celebrating His intense and saving love for us (Cf. Jn 3:16)

The Gospel narratives specific to the Birth of Christ remind us that the salvation brought by Jesus isn’t just a spiritual concept…
… but a tangible reality rooted in human experience.

We are reminded that His coming into the world holds immense historical and personal significance for all of us.

Another important reminder is the distinguishing characteristic of Christianity: the core of Christianity is not a set of teachings, but it is about what God has done for us – our redemption from sins!

This is expressed in the very meaning of the name Jesus: JESUS means “God saves!”

(The name JESUS, is perhaps, the shortest and simplest prayer that we can make – as we call on the salvific power of God [Cf. Rom 10:13])

Christmas, therefore, comes with the strong message that “every external act of festivity ought to be accompanied by an internal surrender of one’s life to Christ, our Saviour!”

The decorations that we do, find authentic meaning, when we allow Christ’s Love to glitter our life!

The sweets, cakes and other food we prepare, have real value, when we allow our faith in Christ to nourish and nurture us!
The stars we put up and the carols we sing, find true importance, when we allow Christ’s Mercy to radiate and harmonise us!

That is why, the greatest and the truest act in the celebration of Christmas is accepting Jesus as the Saviour of our lives!

All other external expressions ought to flow forth or lead towards this sole requirement:
JESUS IS TO BE BORN IN OUR HEARTS!

We are also called to reflect on some other essential messages of the Solemnity of Christmas

  1. Christmas is the beautiful saga of God humbling Himself, and as the Good Shepherd (Cf. Jn 10:11) going to any extent to win us back to him

Birth in the manger demonstrates the abasement of the Divine

Baby Jesus, lying in the manger is also a prefiguration of Jesus dying on the Cross, fulfilling the act of humiliation signified in Incarnation! (Cf. Phil 2:6-8)

  1. Christmas is the amazing story of hope and courage

Joseph and Mary displayed tremendous hope and courage as they join hands with the Will of God (despite the many challenges and obstacles that came their way)!

Zechariah and Elizabeth exhibited much hope and courage, as they held fast in faithfulness, to experience the miraculous birth of John, the precursor of Jesus
The shepherds and the wise men showed much hope and courage, as they boldly trusted in the signs given to them, which culminated in their offering of service and worship.

  1. Christmas rings in the good news that “the one who trusts in God” will always be blessed! (Cf. Ps 146:5)

Mary, Joseph, Zechariah, Elizabeth, the shepherds, the wise men – everyone experienced tremendous blessings because they “chose to trust in God!”

Life often takes us through crossroads and dangerous curves

Are we ready to make a choice – of trusting in the Lord…
… and thus experiencing His mighty blessings!
Christmas is indeed history – HIS story
… the fantastic story of Him Who loves us immensely
… the fabulous event of Him Who is born for us – for our salvation

This Christmas, let us make our hearts a “place of party” to celebrate love and mercy…
… by accepting the unwanted, the rejected and the lonely!
… by sharing the precious gifts of God’s Mercy and Love to all!

With much faith and joy, let us celebrate God’s intense and saving love for us!

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL!

God Bless! Let’s always… Live Jesus!

— Fr Jijo Jose Manjackal MSFS
Rome, Italy
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