
Ray of Hope # 269: Suicide


“‘Disentangling” ourselves from the habit of ‘blindly’ following others; instead, following Christ with deeper conviction!”
(Based on 1 Tim 6:2c-12 and Lk 8:1-3- Friday of the 24th Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
There is a particular type of a caterpillar called as “Pine Processional Caterpillars”.
These “Processional Caterpillars” walk in long lines – each one following closely the next in front.
A noted French naturalist named Jean Henri Fabre, once conducted an experiment on them.
He took a flowerpot and placed of a number of these “Processional Caterpillars” in a single-file around the circumference of the rim of a flower-pot.
Each caterpillar’s head touched the one in front of it.
He then placed the caterpillar’s favourite food in the middle of the pot.
He was surprised to observe that each of the caterpillar followed the one ahead, thinking it was heading for the food.
Round and round went these insects – for several days!
Finally, after many days of this absurd activity, the caterpillars started to drop dead – because of exhaustion and starvation!
All that they had to avoid the snare of death was to stop the senseless rounding around the pot…
…. and head, instead, directly to the food, that was placed less than six-inches away from them!
However, these “Processional Caterpillars” were trapped in a lifestyle which made them to only follow the one ahead..
… and were unable to “disentangle” themselves from the habit of ‘blindly’ following others!
Am I turning out to be a “Processional Christian?”
… claiming to follow Christ, just because others are doing the same or I have got into the “rut” of a system?
… aimlessly following Christ, without any conviction or sometimes even of an awareness of ‘why I am doing so?’
The Gospel of the Day presents to us a beautiful set of “Followers of Christ” who pursued Him in faith, in conviction and with a sense of clear purpose.
The Gospel of St Luke gives an interesting list of people (there would also have been probably others), who followed Jesus closely and were part of His Kingdom Ministry (Lk 8: 1-3).
Its edifying to learn some aspects from each of these sets of people…
They were people of opposing temperaments, differing characters, conflicting backgrounds and divergent personalities.
Yet, the “glue” of ‘belonging to Christ’ kept them together
Can I learn the aspect of..
… going beyond my personal differences and accidental characteristics, to forge together beautiful and faithful relationships, in my family, my workplaces, my communities etc, in order to follow Christ closer?
She had personally experienced the power of Christ’s healing.
This made her to keep her focus on the Lord, her God and to be intimately following Him for the rest of her life.
Can I learn the aspect of…
… recognising, cherishing and sustaining the many ‘miraculous and wonderful’ encounters of the Lord’s healing and care, that I experience on a daily basis, and thus to passionately follow the Lord?
She was the wife of Chuza, who was the steward of King Herod Antipas.
To follow Jesus involved a high level of risk for her, as there was a danger from King Herod, who was wicked and had expressed his displeasure by the murder of John the Baptist.
Can I learn the aspect of…
…. being daring and courageous in following the Lord, even at the risk of my life, the risk of being exposed to humiliation and the risk of bearing discouragements, persecutions and indifference from others?
There is not much information on their identity but they were part of a section of the society i.e. women… who were terribly maltreated and were given an unfair, unequal and unrecognizable positions in the Jewish religious hierarchy.
Can I learn the aspect of…
… being ready to break the mental barriers and the paralysing thought-patterns in the society which cripple one’s freedom, in order to become an authentic follower of the Lord?
These followers of Christ teach us vital lessons…
… of making radical transformations
… of valuing God’s wonderful workings in life
… of being courageously bold
… of overcoming challenges and barriers
… in order to Follow Christ – with conviction, with commitment and with certainty!
We cannot simply remain as “Processional Christians” – being trapped in a lifestyle which makes us to “claim to follow Christ”…
… and being unable to “disentangle” ourselves from the habit of ‘blindly’ following others!.
We instead need to become…
“Practical Christians” – who put into practice the preachings of Christ!
“Praiseworthy Christians” – who live our lives seeking to please the Lord in every act and deed!
“Precious Christians” – who live with a deep conviction of belonging to the Lord and making efforts to share His love to all!
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Experimentation on human beings is not morally legitimate
… if it exposes the subject’s life or physical and psychological integrity to disproportionate or avoidable risks.
Experimentation on human beings does not conform to the dignity of the person
… if it takes place without the informed consent of the subject… or those who legitimately speak for him. (CCC # 2295)

“Falling in love with the Lord and remaining faithful to the love-life in the Lord!”
(Based on 1 Tim 4:12-16 and Lk 7:36-50 – Thursday of the 24th Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
A catechism teacher, while distributing answer scripts of the Catechism Exam to her 3rd Standard (3rd Grade) students told them:
“I am so happy that most of you have done so well for these exams.
But remember, all these classes and exams are in preparation for the Bigger Examination.”
And she went on to explain:
“This Bigger Examination – the General Examination – is the Last Judgement Day!
And as St Robert Bellarmine tells us, ‘the School of Christ is the School of Love.
In the last day, when the general examination takes place…
… Love will be the whole syllabus!'”
Yes…
… All of us are called to grow in this understanding and practice of the “syllabus of Love!”
Have I “fallen in love” with the Lord and remain faithful to the love-life in the Lord?
The Gospel of the Day presents a wonderful expression of love towards Jesus and the subsequent acknowledgement of this gesture of love, by the Lord of Love!
The incident of sinner woman, washing the feet of Jesus in the house of Simon the Pharisee, ends with a statement, “Who is this, who even forgives sins?” (Lk 7: 49)
The answer of this statement is probably what is expressed by the woman in her gesture of love.
Jesus was a guest in the house of Simon, the Pharisee.
It was probably one of those meals whereby a respected and wise host would invite several of the socially elite to dine with an important guest.
At this meal, they would recline along the table, laying down on their sides, to eat.
The meal would also involve a series of debates and discussions, over many crucial issues, centred around the special guest.
However, suddenly, out of nowhere, a lady enters in the scene.
It was one of those highly embarrassing and highly disgusting moments for the Host!
The lady was a known sinner…
… In the society, she had earned a notorious reputation
Her very presence was causing terrible insult.
Her ensuing action…
… wiping the feet with the ointment from the alabaster jar
… wiping them with her hairs
… kissing them with tenderness
… caused still further damage to the reputation and honour of the host and his Guest!
However, what followed later, was like adding salt to the wounds of the host…
Jesus publicly recognizes, acknowledges and appreciates the action of the sinful woman.
He says, in solemn tones of approval of the action of the woman, “… She has shown great love! The one to whom little is forgiven, loves little” (Lk 7: 48)
Jesus had openly and publicly acknowledged the tremendous and daring love of the woman for Him!
And in doing so, He had given an answer to the question that would be put forth later, “Who is this, who even forgives sins?”
Her actions of love gave an answer…
… that He was the One worthy of receiving the highest and deepest love – one that counts no humiliation or hardships!
… that He was the One deserving the sweetest and the most priceless affections of our hearts – one that is limitless!
… that He was the One meritorious of every expression of endearment and fondness – one that is passionate and pure!
What is my level of love for the Lord?
Am I courageous to express my love for Him in actions that trespass humiliations or shame or guilt?
Am I bold to show that I truly love Him by living a life in accordance with the virtues of the Gospel?
Am I credible enough to say that I really love Him by extending His care to all those who are in need?
As we go about doing all our works, let us not fail to prepare ourselves well for the bigger examination – the general examination – The Last Judgement Day!
And let’s remember that when this general examination takes place…
… Love will be the whole syllabus!
St Joseph Cupertino – the Saint of the Day (The patron saint of air travelers, pilots, astronauts…
… and those with learning disabilities and often called as the ‘flying saint’ due to his miraculous gift of levitation and visions), inspires us with his words:
“Clearly, what God wants above all is our will which we received as a free gift from God in creation and possess as though our own…
When a man trains himself to acts of virtue, it is with the help of grace from God from whom all good things come that he does this!”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Research or experimentation on the human being cannot legitimate acts that are in themselves contrary to the dignity of persons and to the moral law.
The subjects’ potential consent does not justify such acts. (CCC # 2295)

“Giving heed to the call of the Lord, and doing away with all hypocritical aspects of our life; instead, having expressions of faith, that are real and genuine!
(Based on 1 Tim 3:14-16 and Lk 7:31-35 – Wednesday of the 24th Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
After his victory over Mark Antony at the Battle of Actium, Augustus Caesar came back to Rome in triumph.
Among the huge crowd who greeted him, was a man (a bird seller) who had a bird that was taught to say, “Hail, Caesar, victorious!”
Augustus Caesar, the victorious king was greatly impressed that the bird was able to utter praises in honour of his victory…
… and bought the bird for a large sum.
Then someone got Caesar aside and whispered to him, that the man had another bird that was just as talented.
The man was summoned and Caesar asked for a demonstration of what the other bird could do.
The man selling the birds, however, objected and expressed reluctance…
… but Caesar insisted.
Finally the bird uttered: “Hail, Antony, victorious!”
(The second bird ended up uttering praises to the enemy who had been defeated by Augustus Caesar!)
The birds had been only trained to speak by rote!
Their expression was not something “that was really meant”…
Their expression was laden with tones of duplicity and lack of genuineness
The Gospel of the Day is a presentation on how people are also very often similar…
… failing to have expressions that are real and genuine!
… falling into the trap of duplicity and double-standardness!
The Gospel is an exposition on the attitudes of duplicity and being double-standard that can cram our Christian lives.
Jesus gives an illustration of how the attitudes of duplicity…
… and being double-standard can cram our Christian lives.
He speaks of “children sitting in the market place and calling to one another, ‘We piped to you and you did not dance; we wailed and you did not weep'” (Lk 7: 32)
Two persons who had committed themselves totally to the cause of the Kingdom are under the scanner today – John the Baptist and Jesus.
He did not drink wine, and he and his followers fasted regularly.
He baptized people in the Jordan River.
But John also preached repentance and gave a clarion call to turn away from one sins!
And this irked the people…
The elders of the Jewish community dreaded him because he recognized the corruption of the priests, and publicly called them to repent and be baptized.
They refused, because they wanted to keep their power, their wealth, their full stomachs and their fine clothing!
He shared in the table-fellowship of many people regularly.
He preached the Kingdom of God.
But Jesus also challenged people to let go off their sinful and corrupt lives and turn to God in penitence!
And this annoyed the leaders…
The Pharisees hated him because he preached with much authority and his new understanding of the law was highly challenging!
They rejected Him, because they wanted to stick to their traditions, empty hearts and their inhuman practices!
Jesus and John both would have hit high on the popularity charts if they had “played nice” or “would have allowed things to be little more easy!”
But both of Them did not budge…
This is what Jesus says, “We played the flute for you, you did not dance; We mourned to you, you did not weep.” (Lk 7:32)
Both of them refused to compromise on their convictions and principles of life
It was a tragedy of that generation…
… that two of the great leaders – John and Jesus – though came with apparent contrast – found themselves rejected!
… that these two great messengers of the Kingdom, met with a tragic end – one beheaded, the other crucified!
This shows an important philosophy that underlies many lives: an attitude of indifference to the truth and an attitude of rejection of those who challenge our lives!
This tragedy affects our generation too…
We often wrap ourselves often in the garment of hard-heartedness and arrogance…
… and fail to allow the message of the Truth to bring a transformation in our lives
We neatly hide ourselves in the dark shadows of indifference and apathy…
… and remain unconcerned with the workings of God’s Power and Grace in our hearts
But the Lord today renders a wake-up call to shake off the dusts of…
… apathy, hypocrisy and indifference from our lives!
Very often our faith is only a training to speak prayers and express articles of faith merely “by rote”
Very often, our religious expressions are laden with tones of duplicity and lack of genuineness
Let us give heed to the call of the Lord and do away with all hypocritical aspects of our life, and instead…
… have expressions that are real and genuine!
… and thus become an authentic follower of God and an ardent missionary of the Kingdom!
The words of St Robert Bellarmine, the Saint of the Day and Doctor of the Church, is an inspiration to all of us:
“Love is a marvellous and heavenly thing.
It never tires and it never thinks it has done enough!”
“The School of Christ is the School of Love.
In the last day, when the general examination takes place…
… Love will be the whole syllabus!'”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
Science and technology by their very nature require unconditional respect for fundamental moral criteria.
They must be at the service of the human person, of his inalienable rights, of his true and integral good…… in conformity with the Plan and the Will of God. (CCC # 2294)

“Making a journey from a ‘dead lifeless existence’ to a ‘dynamically passionate living!’”
(Based on 1 Tim 3:1-13 and Lk 7:11-17 – Tuesday of the 24th Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
“Alice in Wonderland” is a popular 1865 novel.
It tells of a girl named Alice falling through a rabbit hole into a fantasy world.
One of the conversations, in this book, between Alice and a cat goes thus…
Alice: “Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here”?
Cat: “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to”
Alice: “I don’t much care where”….”So long as I get somewhere.”
Cat: “Then it doesn’t much matter which way you go!”
Many times, like Alice we are such…
… we don’t really know where are going
… we are not aware of the destination towards which are we moving
As a result, we fail to realise the importance of the “Journey” that we make.
The Gospel of the Day is an invitation to examine our “life as a journey”…
… and to come to a greater awareness, of how the Lord, Who is “The Way”, needs to become “our Road, our Direction as well as our Destination!”
Life is a constant journey.
Our lives are filled with all sorts of journeys…
Short and long journeys…
Journeys in our minds and hearts…
Journeys towards God and away from God..
… Journeys that are as trivial as a trip to a shop..
… or as life-changing, as a trip to the hospital to witness the miracle of birth!
Our lives are made up of many such journeys: journeys that shape and mould us into who we are today.
Our earthly life, too, is a journey that begins at birth and ends with death.
With each passing day, one moves a step closer to the eventual-reality of one’s earthly life: death!
The Gospel of the Day – the incident of the raising of the dead son of the widow in the city of Nain – presents several journeys in an atmosphere of death and life:
His words influenced and inspired many people – the sinful, the broken and the hopeless!
His deeds healed and touched many people – the sick, the ailing and the bedridden.
Do I make a journey similar to the Lord in being a messenger of mercy and hope to the suffering world?
Do I make a journey in the ministry of the Lord by reaching out the Gospel of Joy to a depressed humanity?
There were many followers and people (Lk 7:11) who were attracted to the magnetic personality of the Lord…
… and who after seeing the amazing miracle of the dead man raised, begin to glorify God with loud acclaims.
Many people were touched by the charm and miracles of the Lord.
Many people were overwhelmed by the grand deeds and mighty works of the Lord.
They make a journey, with Jesus – From a “Curious Following” to realizing the “Divine Presence” in their midst!
Do I make a journey to move from a ‘peripheral following’ of Jesus to a ‘deeper seeking of His Presence’?
Do I make a journey from mere ‘external praises’ to a ‘heart-involved acclamation’ of the Lord?
It was a time of sadness and grief for the people who accompanied the dead man’s bier. (Lk 7: 11b)
Some of them would have been his relatives, some his friends, some his neighbours and some just unknown people.
But the reality of death, especially of a young man, hit all of them hard.
Death had cast its pale gloom on the minds of them all!
They however, make a journey with Jesus – from a ‘sad mourning’ over a death to ‘joyful applauses’ over a life!
Am I able to make a journey from dead and lifeless situations to lively and enthusiastic moments with the Lord?
Am I able to make a journey from gloom and sadness to splendid joy and happiness in the Lord?
The grieving mother is a widow (Lk 7: 12a)…
… and since it is her only son who has died, she finds herself in dire straits: She has no male to protect or provide for her.
To add injury to sorrow, she is faced with the reality that her family line has ended with the death of her son.
She too makes a journey with Jesus: From absolute hopelessness and despondency to a fresh lease of hope and life!
Do I journey with Jesus to have my situations of total despair be changed to thrilling moments?
Do I journey with Jesus to allow my life-threatening instants to be converted to blessed occasions?
The dead man had to undergo this tragic reality at a younger stage of his life.
He would have been the only strong support of his family, after the death of his father.
And now, the bread winner was reduced to absolute starvation!
He too, however makes a journey with Jesus: From the dungeons of death to the glorious castles of life!
Can I make a journey from a “quit-easily” style of life to a “committed” style of life?
Can I make a journey from “luck-dependant” lifestyle to a “God’s Providence-aware” lifestyle?
Life itself is a journey where each day is a step closer to the eventual-reality of one’s earthly life: death!
Let us beautify this journey by constantly travelling with Jesus and undergoing many transformations!
In this life, we have the Church which supports and replenishes us…
… with her life-enriching and life-giving Sacraments – especially the Holy Eucharist and the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Let us adorn this journey with the jewels of the Holy Sacraments that our Church provides us with!
Let us not remain ignorant regarding the purpose or destination of our life journey…
… Let us come to a greater realisation that “The Lord is our Road, Our Direction and Our Destination!”
Today, let us ask the intercession of Saints Cornelius and Cyprian…
… whose feast we celebrate.
St Cornelius, as Pope, stood firm in unity and mercy, defending the Church against division and persecution.
St Cyprian, as Bishop, guided his flock with wisdom, courage, and a shepherd’s heart:
Their life witness reminds us that…
… we are called to “journey from a dead, lifeless existence to a dynamically passionate living in Christ.”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
It is an illusion to claim moral neutrality in scientific research and its applications.
On the other hand, guiding principles cannot be inferred from simple technical efficiency…… or from the usefulness accruing to some at the expense of others or, even worse, from prevailing ideologies. (CCC # 2294)

“Being inspired by the Compassionate Mother, who is with us in our every sorrow, as she helps us, to follow Her Crucified Son and our Saviour, Jesus!”
(Based on the Memorial of our Lady of Sorrows)
A prayer meeting was on.
The participants were reciting the Rosary of the Seven Dolours (= the seven sorrows of our Blessed Mother Mary).
It came to the fifth sorrow, which is “Jesus dies on the Cross”.
However, the one who was leading the prayer, by mistake said, “Mary dies on the Cross”.
A few participants, who heard this mistake, burst out into laughter…
… at the mistake!
But in hindsight, if we consider that statement, there is so much of truth and meaning in it – “Mary dies on the Cross!”
While on earth, there was no one who was closer to our Blessed Lord than His Own Beloved Mother.
He received His body from Her.
With Him, She rejoiced!
With Him, She suffered!
And finally, in those deepest agonizing moments on the Cross…
… there was none who suffered more than Her!
Every pain of Her Little Child, was experienced by the Blessed Mother
Mary was the Woman Who was most happy at the birth of the Lord
Mary was also the Woman Who was most sorrowful at the death of the Lord!
Today, Holy Mother the Church keeps the memorial of Mary, the Sorrowful Mother of Jesus.
This feast is dedicated to the spiritual martyrdom of our Blessed Mother.
The title “Our Lady of Sorrows” focuses on Mother Mary’s intense suffering during the Passion and Death of Jesus…
… and invites us to meditate especially through the Seven Sorrowful and Dolorous Moments in the life of our Blessed Mother.
Suffering is an immense and an intense reality of our lives.
Many times, sufferings hit our lives when…
… we least expect it
… we are least prepared for it
Such moments of pain and agony…when encountered without any faith….
… can cause us to lose any meaning in life and renders our life to be shorn of hope
… can cause us to question God and His goodness and strips our faith of its strength
… can cause us to have recourse to “unbecoming” means to relieve ourselves from pain
However, such moments of suffering and difficulties…. when faced with deep faith and trust…
… will become occasions of God’s overflowing grace filling our lives and making us stronger
… will become occasions for us to depend deeper on our Creator and to feel His power more strongly
… will become occasions for us to realise the value of life, and become more compassionate towards others
In the midst of the pains and struggles that surround us, we need to ask ourselves…
… have we been able to increase our faith and trust in the Lord, and know the God is very much with us, even in this unexplained time of suffering?
… or has our faith wavered, and is our life cluttered with many uncertainties and questions of hopelessness?
Our Blessed Mother Mary – the Mother of Sorrows and the Mother of Compassion – teaches us many important and vital lessons for life
She had every reason to complain and fight against God…
She had every reason to protest and abandon God and His Will…
She had every reason to murmur and let go of the plan of God for Her…
But, the “Yes” that She pronounced at the Annunciation was echoed all through Her life… at every step
… be it in times of joy and calmness
… be it in times of sadness and calamity
The “Yes” She said was the “Final Profession” She made…
… just as the Religious make on the Day of their Profession
… just as the Priests make on the Day of their Ordination
… just as the Married make to each other and to God, on their Day of Wedding
… just as the Baptised make to the Lord and seek to live, from the time of Baptism
It was a binding for life…
It was a commitment to, with conviction…
It was to be lived in sincerity, with dedication…
The Feast of the Mother of Sorrows is a beautiful reminder and reflection on “Two Hearts that were united to each other, burning with love” – the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Heart of Blessed Mother Mary!
These two Hearts underwent immense pain and suffering…
… yet, rejoiced in Love!
We are invited to live a life…
…. free from sin
… filled with love
… firm in conviction
… fashioned in grace
Like our Beloved and Blessed Mother Mary!
Mamma Mary invites all of us to live a life of joy, even when the clouds of sorrow paint the skies of our lives.
Her Seven Special Moments of Joy…
May we be filled with the courage and grace to truly make it our prayer:
“Holy Mother, pierce me through
In my heart, each wound renew
Of my Saviour Crucified!”
Wish you a Happy Feast of our Compassionate Mother, who is ever with us in our every sorrow…
… as she helps us, to follow Her Crucified Son and Our Strengthening Saviour, Jesus!
God Bless! Live Jesus!
— Fr Jijo Jose Manjackal MSFS
Rome, Italy
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – _The Fifth Commandment – Respect for human life
By themselves however they cannot disclose the meaning of existence and of human progress.
Science and technology are ordered to man, from whom they take their origin and development…… hence they find in the person and in his moral values both evidence of their purpose and awareness of their limits. (CCC # 2293)