
Ray of Hope #319: Social Media


“Making clear-cut and distinct choices in our Christian life!”
(Based on Rom 16:3-9, 16, 22-27 and Lk 16:9-15 – Saturday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
Picture this scene.
It’s a bright morning at Niagara Falls, 1859.
The mist is rising, the roar of the waters is deafening…
… and thousands of people are holding their breath.
A rope – just two inches thick – stretches across the mighty falls.
And then he appears: Charles Blondin, the greatest tightrope walker of his time.
He steps onto that rope…
… one careful step at a time.
The crowd gasps – some turn their faces away.
Step after step…inch after inch…
… and finally, he reaches the other side!
The people explode in cheers and applause.
Blondin turns around and shouts,
“Do you believe I can walk back again?”
“Yes!” they roar.
He smiles. “Do you believe I can do it pushing a wheelbarrow?”
“Yes!”
Then he points to the crowd and asks,
“Who will get into the wheelbarrow?”
Silence.
No one moved!
Everyone believed…
… but no one committed!
Everyone cheered…
… but no one chose!
In our Christian life, it’s time to stop cheering from the sidelines…
… and start choosing!
Faith is not a feeling to admire…
.. it is a choice to commit.
The Gospel of the Day presents this Call of the Lord to make a clear-cut and distinct choice.
Jesus says: “No servant can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other or, be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon” (Lk 16:13)
Probably, more than any time before, the world faces this deep-rooted problem of a “divided heart”
There is a constant dialectic (tension) between serving God and serving mammon!
We say we obey God…
… but we fail to abide by His commandments and teachings in the Church!
We say we love God…
… but we fail to express this love in a faithful lifestyle of prayers and devotions.
We say we serve God…
… but we fail to extend His love and compassion to our people in need.
We say we honour God…
… but we fail to witness to His Gospel values and dilute them to serve our petty interests.
Let’s not be afraid to look at the naked face of reality staring at us today…
Most people today serve something besides God…
… sin?
… music?
… sports?
… money?
… themselves?
… my own will?
… power and positions?
… cravings of their bodies ?
Am I also serving something else instead of God?
In the Old Testament, one of the greatest accusations made against the people of Israel was: the sin of idolatry…
… abandoning the Living and True God and rendering worship and honour to some non-living thing as a god.
Though, as Christians, we may not be explicitly worshipping some idol or running after some gods or crazy over some magical mantras…
… it is not a bad idea to examine our conscience and check whether we really have formed some gods in our lives and thus entering into “practical” idolatry….
Maybe I am too much attached to my electronic gadgets like the phones, TV, music players, cameras…and use them way beyond my “need!”
The idol of gadgets?
Maybe I am too much obsessed with my looks, my styles, my clothing and food habits, my make-up styles… and “over-conscious” than the minimal requirements!
The idol of the self?
Maybe I am crazy about gaining over-popularity through an “n” number of picture displays and posts on many social networking sites… and “get totally upset” when I fail to receive the expected appreciations and “likes!”
The idol of attention-seeking?
Maybe I am too much occupied with my work, business and other undertakings, that I fail to give attention to my family, my community, the needs of my own spiritual self etc… and lose out on the little joys and happiness of life!
The idol of money and work?
There could be many more idols in our life..
The idol of laziness…
The idol of bad habits…
The idol of procrastination…
The idol of power-obsession…
The idol of immoral lifestyles…
The idol of losing a sense of sin…
The idol of criticizing and judging…
In the Gospel, when Jesus said, “Make friends with dishonest wealth”… (Lk 16:9)
… The Greek word is “mamōnas” meaning wealth or possessions
… but already carrying a moral warning: “it is that, which can easily enslave you.”
In the Greco-Roman world, wealth was used to buy patronage and status.
Jesus now flips it…
… wealth should now “gain you” mercy and solidarity.
It’s saying: “Take that very thing which the world misuses – wealth – and redeem its purpose.
Use it to build relationships of mercy and generosity…
… so that your giving becomes your gateway to eternal dwellings.
This is the choice we are called to make!
It’s a rejection of worldly temptations…
… it’s an acceptance of Divine Intention!
The Gospel of the day places a great choice before us…
Choose to be with God or to follow other idols?
Choose to obey His laws and commandments or to stray away from His paths?
We cannot serve both God and other things…
One leads to life… the other to death.
Which side are we on?
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Sixth Commandment – You shall not commit adultery – Male and Female He created them
Charity is the form of all the virtues.
Under its influence, chastity appears as a school of the gift of the person.
Self-mastery is ordered to the gift of self.Chastity leads him who practices it to become a witness to his neighbor of God’s fidelity and loving kindness. (CCC # 2346)

“Being ready to be Christians with an ‘excellent spine!'”
(Based on Rom 15:14-21 and Lk 16:1-8 – Friday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
It was a Bible study class.
The group was doing a study on the Book of Prophet Daniel.
As was the custom, one of the members would start the Bible study by reading the passage of the day, to the group, aloud.
The selected passage for the day was Chapter 6 of the Book of Daniel.
An elderly person, stood up to read.
He, however had some struggle with his sight and was finding it a bit difficult to read.
When he came to verse 3 (which actually says: “an excellent spirit was in Daniel”)…
… adjusting his thick glasses, the man read: “… an excellent spine was in Daniel!”
(The word ‘spirit’ was mistakenly read as ‘spine’!)
Well… that was bad reading…
… but nevertheless, it was wonderful theology
… because Prophet Daniel was indeed a man of excellent spine – a backbone that made him strong and courageous!
Are we Christians with an “excellent spine?”
The Gospel of the Day, with a worldly example placed before us – the Parable of the Unjust Steward – is a mighty challenge to us to examine whether we as Christians, are people…
… who really are bold and courageous to stand for the Gospel principles
… who really are zealous and prudent to preserve our holiness and sanctity!
The story of the unjust steward is an interesting as well as an eye-opener for us, in our spiritual and Christian life
This is also a parable that could be classified under the “controversial” or “what-was-He-really-meaning” category!
The summary of the parable would go thus…
A steward has been reported to the Master for squandering the property (Lk 16:1)
Dismissal is on the cards for the steward (Lk 16:2)
Taking stock of the possibilities for the future, he decides and acts on the principle: Manipulation is the best policy for a safer future (Lk 16:3-7)
The Master commends this unjust, yet prudent and craft act of the steward! (Lk 16: 8a)
The parable could cause some strange questions to crop up…
Why is Jesus – the Honest-Man-par-excellance – presenting this strangely negative example to His followers?
Does Jesus mean that we should follow the bad ways of the world, in order to win our salvation?
“Hook or Crook” – is that the policy that Jesus says for us Christians, to live in this world?
Well…
Without going deep into the theological debates of such questions…
… we shall look into the answer that Jesus Himself proposed for saying this parable:
“For the children of the world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation, than are the children of light” (Lk 16: 8b)
The purpose of Jesus to say this parable is put forth: Children of the this world are often more shrewd to make sure a good future…
… whereas, the children of the light, tend to be extremely relaxed concerning their salvation!
People of this worldly kingdom are willing to go to any extend to secure themselves…
… whereas those who supposedly wish to belong to God’s Kingdom, leisure themselves in lethargy!
This is a technique of “comparative imperative” that is proposed by Jesus…
… by emphasising on the opposite, a challenge is put forth!
… by highlighting a negative dimension, the positive aspect is enforced!
Such “comparative imperatives” can easily be observed in our lives…
We would make every effort to be in time to catch a bus/train/flight, so as not to miss it…
… but don’t mind, being late for our prayers or spiritual activities, including the Holy Mass!
We would ensure every day we have our food and get a good rest, so that our bodies don’t get weak…
… but give no regard to feed and give rest to our souls, by spending time with the Lord in personal prayer and growing in relationship with Him!
We would feel a dreadful sense of disgust if we do not have our daily bath (shower) and cleanse our bodies…
… but have sometimes no awareness to realise our souls are dirty and we need to cleanse them through a daily examination of conscience, and regularly through the Sacramental Confession.
We don’t mind wagging our tongues to say a bad word or a dirty joke or nasty words of criticism and condemnation..
… but think often, when we need to say something positive or appreciate someone or to say an occasional prayer to recall the presence of the Lord!
This “comparative imperative” proposed by the Lord in this parable makes us to reflect deeper:
Am I more enthusiastic about the affairs of this world, which gives only transient joy…
… at the cost of avoiding my spiritual life, which alone can ensure me eternal happiness?
Am I only concerned more about my materialistic concerns and my temporal duties…
… and end up neglecting the solemn duties of our Christian life and being more spiritually rooted?
Our Blessed Lord is extremely serious…
… that we take our Christian lives and faith, on a more serious note!
Salvation is at stake!
Eternal Life is at question!
The Lord is perhaps addressing us, and telling:
“For those who are working…
… you would try to make any sincere efforts to make sure you get a better salary, isn’t it?
For those who are studying…
… you would try to put in extra hard work to ensure you get the extra marks, isn’t it?
For those who are at home…
… you would spare no efforts, to ensure peace and harmony and a happy time, isn’t it?
For those in institutes or companies or in-charge of some establishment…
… you would take the extra mile to be the best and co-ordinate to the maximum, to give better performances, isn’t it?
Then why…
… Why sometimes, lethargy only for spiritual life?
… Why sometimes, indifference, only with respect to a life of faith?”
Are we ready to be Christians with an “excellent spine?”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Sixth Commandment – You shall not commit adultery – Male and Female He created them
Chastity is a moral virtue. It is also a gift from God, a grace, a fruit of spiritual effort.
The Holy Spirit enables one whom the water of Baptism has regenerated to imitate the purity of Christ. (CCC # 2345)

“Experiencing the Loving Heart of the Good Shepherd, which is deep rooted in Mercy and Compassion!”
(Based on Rom 14:7-12 and Lk 15:1-10 – Thursday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
A youngster who was very desperate in life – contemplating even of terminating his life – exasperated and lost…
… was passing along the streets, when he heard the Church bells ringing for the Angelus at noontime.
Something in him, made him go inside the Church.
As he went in, he saw a large statue of Jesus…
… with the Sacred Heart of Jesus prominently displayed
And underneath the statue were written words…
… beautiful words that would bring him much consolation, hope and joy
So much so, that he would take a resolution to amend his life and to live with greater hope and joy!
The words were as follows:
“As you look into My Heart… remember always, these words…
There is an Eye that never sleeps, even beneath the wing of night
… just for you!
There is a Ear that never shuts, even when sink the beams of light
… just for you!
There is an Arm that never tires, even when human strength gives way
… just for you!
There is a Love that never fails, even when earthly loves decay
… just for you!
And…
… there is a Heart that never stops beating, even when trials of life lash you hard
… just for you!
This Heart of Mine… is just for you!
Can you also give me your life…?
… and tell me, “LORD, JUST FOR YOU!”
Love, by its nature, gives away…
And the Sacred Heart of our Lord – the Good Shepherd – which is deep rooted in Mercy and Compassion – tells us, “This Heart of Mine… is just for you!”
The Gospel of the Day displays the beautiful Heart of the Good Shepherd, Who goes in search of the lost one!
Chapter 15 of St Luke is an amazing revelation of God’s tremendous love, mercy and longing for each one of us.
We have the Parables of the Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin and the Lost Son.
In all the three parables, lost ones are found
In all the three parables, there is great celebration at the end.
In all the three parables, an emphasis is laid on hope for the lost.
Jesus, the Good Shepherd teaches the immense Love that the Lord possesses for each one of us, personally.
The shepherd had a hundred sheep.
During the count as he gathers the sheep at day’s end, the shepherd notices that one is missing.
The sheep needs to be found; otherwise, it may be permanently lost or attacked by hungry predators.
The Shepherd, therefore, takes the risk of leaving the rest behind, and goes out in search of the lost one.
This is the personal Love of the Lord for every sheep!
All are important!
Even the lost one is given great importance!
Have I personally experienced the tremendous Love of the Lord?
I may feel low.
I may consider myself to be not very good.
I may think that my life is just not worth living or that my past has ruined my life very badly.
Even with all these things, am I convinced that “Jesus, my Good Shepherd still loves me”, and that He will take me through, by the Power of His Love?
Am I similar to a Lost Sheep?
Lost in the thickets of materialistic living…?
Lost in the valleys of doubts and rejections and failures…?
Lost in the bushes of excessive pride, prestige and power….?
Lost in the wilderness of hopelessness and meaninglessness in life…?
There is still hope!
The Heart of the Good Shepherd is longing for us!
Let us go back to the Lord!
Let us experience His caring love and affection!
Yes…
… the Sacred Heart of our Lord – the Good Shepherd – which is deep rooted in Mercy and Compassion – tells us: “This Heart of Mine… is just for you!”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
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MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Sixth Commandment – You shall not commit adultery – Male and Female He created them
Chastity represents an eminently personal task…
… it also involves a cultural effort, for there is “an interdependence between personal betterment and the improvement of society.”
Chastity presupposes respect for the rights of the person, in particular the right to receive information…… and an education that respect the moral and spiritual dimensions of human life. (CCC # 2344)

“Being willing to be ‘filtered’ and living in holiness, with a sense of mission to bring all people to the Love of Christ!”
(Based on Rom 13:8-10 and Lk 14:25-33 – Wednesday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
Filtration is a process by which any material is passed through a certain device to remove unwanted elements in it.
Filtration happens every day around the world.
It occurs both in nature and in engineered systems.
For example…
… in many living bodies (including humans), renal filtration removes wastes from the blood
… in water treatment and sewage treatment, undesirable elements are removed by absorption into a filter medium
Every filtration has three basic components:
The Feed: The original material with the presence of unwanted elements
The Filter: The mechanism/device that does the cleansing
The Filtrate: The matter that comes after the process
Our Life as a Christian is also a “process of filtration”
And has three components as well
The Feed: Our lives – with our own weaknesses and sinful tendencies
The Filter: Jesus, the Crucified Lord – Who Cleanses us
The Filtrate: Our life as a Disciple of Christ – lived in holiness and with a sense of mission
Are we willing to allow the “FEED” of our lives to encounter the “FILTER”…
… so that we can emerge as pure and holy “FILTRATE?”
The Gospel of the Day is this exhortation of the Lord to all who seek to follow Him:
“If any one comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters…
… yes, and even his own life, cannot be my disciple!
Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me, cannot be my disciple!” (Lk 14: 26-27)
The Gospel begins with the statement that “Great multitudes accompanied Jesus…” (Lk 14:25)
The multitude – crowds of people – probably had various intentions of following Jesus
Some to receive healing and be touched by Him (Lk 6:19)
Some to hear the Good News and to follow Him (Lk 5:11)
Some to simply eat the bread (food) that the Lord provided (Lk 9:17)
Some to satisfy their curiosity and fascination (Lk 4:22)
Some to question Who He was and What was His motive (Lk 7:18-19)
Whatever be the intention of the crowds, the Lord was clear in whom He wanted as His followers:
Those who give the highest priority in life to the Lord
Those who would take up their cross
Those who are willing to give up everything, for the sake of the Lord
Towards this end, Jesus cites two parables which would make every disciple of Jesus question their authenticity of following Him
a. The Parable of the one desiring to build the tower (Lk 14:28-30)
Are you willing to count how much it will cost you, to follow Jesus?
b. The Parable of the king who wanted to wage war (Lk 14:31-32)
Are you willing to calculate the risks that are involved, to follow Jesus?
This is a serious challenge that is placed before all Christians, who profess to follow Christ…
… and also to all those, who in ministry, seek to attract disciples for Christ!
Have I “counted the cost” and “calculated the risks” to know, that following Jesus means…
… not to simply run behind miracles and wonders; rather also involves living as Jesus did – in poverty, obedience and purity of heart!
… not just having a Christian name and fulfiling basic duties; but also implies to give the highest priority to the Lord and His Kingdom values, in all what we do!
… not merely reciting prayers and raising hymns of praise; but also infers at reaching out to the poor and needy in self-giving and doing everything for the Glory of God!
A Filtration Process is a must for every follower of Christ.
All of us, surely have our weaknesses and tendencies to be attracted to worldly ways
We very often, even have the goodwill to truly follow Jesus…
However, because of…
… lack of strong motivation
… ignorance and lack of people who can guide us
… various discouraging and deterring incidents and scandals
We fail to truly Follow Jesus.
We, the FEED, need to offer our lives to Jesus…
… and allow ourselves to pass through Our Crucified Lord – Who is our FILTER!
He will cleanse us to make us pure
He will strengthen us with proper motivation
He will nourish us with courage and passion to be bold and faithful
And thus, we will be able to live as the proper FILTRATE – a disciple of Christ…
… living in holiness and with a sense of mission to bring all people to the Love of Christ.
Are we willing to be “Filtered?”
God Bless! Live Jesus!
📖 Discovering the beauty of the Catholic Church through the Catechism
MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Sixth Commandment – You shall not commit adultery – Male and Female He created them
Chastity has laws of growth which progress through stages marked by imperfection and too often by sin.
“Man, day by day, builds himself up through his many free decisions…… and so he knows, loves, and accomplishes moral good by stages of growth.” (CCC # 2343)

“Avoiding excuses; instead, using all the opportunities to grow in holiness and grace!”
(Based on Rom 12:5-16ab and Lk 14:15-24 – Tuesday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time, Year 1)
“Excuses are the nails that are used to build the house of failure”
We often, manage our lives, basing ourselves on many excuses and justifications…
Politicians sometimes make excuses for failure to undertake developmental works blaming their opposition parties.
Citizens sometimes make excuses for their inability towards nation-building by purely blaming the corruption among politicians.
Motorists or car-drivers sometimes make some excuses and jump signals and violate traffic rules.
Traffic inspectors sometimes make some excuses and escape from duties and dump it on someone else.
Students sometimes make excuses for their poor performance by blaming the education system.
Teachers sometimes make excuses for their loopholes in work by blaming the students and parents for non co-operating.
Are we becoming a Generation of Excuse-givers?
The Gospel of the Day brings our attention to this grave and urgent issue that we need to tackle: The Issue of making Excuses for Escapism.
We have the Parable of the Great Wedding Feast in today’s Gospel.
“A man once gave a great feast and invited many guests” (Lk 14:16)
Here was a big and great feast being organized and invitations were sent out to many guests.
This was no simple feast.
This was no ordinary event.
It’s similar to someone today, being invited to a lavish and a grand party by the President of the Nation or some highly dignified person.
It was kind of a once-in-a -lifetime opportunity.
The people waited with eagerness to get such a chance.
In those days, it was the custom to send two invitations.
The first invitation was to tell everyone that the event was being planned.
Those were the days when time was a lavish commodity.
Clocks were scarce and time management techniques were still unheard of.
The actual day and the actual time of the event were left open.
It would depend a lot on the preparation time for the killing of animals, their cleaning and cooking…
… getting all the vegetables and everything needed to get the meal ready.
And so there was a need for a second invitation…
The second invitation was to tell everyone that everything was ready and about to begin.
This second reminder was for to those who had been given the first invitation…
… and had indicated that they would attend.
But the Gospel says, that when the second invitation was sent to the pre-invited guests, they began to make excuses!
Making excuses is nothing new!
It has existed right from the first days…
Adam and Eve made excuses before God in trying to hide the sin of disobedience.
Cain made excuses before God in trying to hide the sin of killing his brother Abel.
Moses gave excuses before God in trying to escape from the task being entrusted to him.
Jeremiah gave excuses before God that he was only a small boy to take up the responsibility
Those who were able to overcome the excuses, found true meaning and joy.
But those who got stuck with their excuses, lost out on discovering greatness!
The guests who had been invited for the grand feast, gave silly excuses….
One said, “I have purchased a field and must go and examine it”
Not a great excuse, isn’t it?
Does anyone enter into land dealings without having seen it in prior?
And even if one has not, was it so urgent, so as to miss the grand feast?
Another said, “I have purchased five oxen and am on my way to evaluate them”
Not a great excuse, isn’t it?
Does anyone purchase land animals, without having examined them?
And even if one has not, was it so immediate a need, so as to skip the great feast?
Another said, “I have just married a woman, and I cannot come”
Not a great excuse, isn’t it?
Couldn’t the husband take along his wife to the feast, to have a joyful time together?
Or was this couple so much exclusive, that they failed to have any social contacts, so as to avoid the fine feast?
Here was an invitation so grand.
Here was a generosity so lavish.
But unfortunately, it was responded with excuses which were baseless, childish, illogical and quite ridiculous!
We might sometimes laugh at those excuses made by the people.
But perhaps, we are also no different…
… or if not, worse.
We are in a trend of being a Generation of Excuse-givers….
We make excuses of physical tiredness, to avoid saying our personal prayers, our family prayers and being faithful to our spiritual activities.
We make excuses of saying that “it’s impossible to live an honest life” and give into many corrupt malpractices, which go against the Gospel values.
We make excuses of being too busy to find time to participate in the Holy Eucharist with greater devotion and preparedness.
We make excuses to reach out to the needy ones in their necessities by citing our own hardships to get out of our comfort areas.
We have a strong exhortation from the Lord today, to get rid of our “Excuse-giving Tendency”.
It’s easy to escape from responsibilities by giving excuses.
But by doing so, we end up missing out on many graces from God…
… causing much pain to God who expects much from us…
… and also disturb the plan and purpose of God for our lives.
We have a duty to overcome this tendency of making Excuses for Escapism.
The Lord gives us many opportunities to grow in holiness and grace.
Let us not make silly and baseless excuses and throw them away.
God Bless! Live Jesus!
📖 Discovering the beauty of the Catholic Church through the Catechism
MAN’S VOCATION LIFE IN THE SPIRIT – GOD’S SALVATION: LAW AND GRACE – The Sixth Commandment – You shall not commit adultery – Male and Female He created them
Self-mastery is a long and exacting work.
One can never consider it acquired once and for all. It presupposes renewed effort at all stages of life.The effort required can be more intense in certain periods, such as when the personality is being formed during childhood and adolescence. (CCC # 2342)